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Interviews with emigrants, expats and world nomads in Africa

Expat and emigration interviews: Living in Kenya to restore coral reefs - meet Peter Vodegel

Who is Peter?
What motivated you to emigrate to Kenya?
Covid...
Burn your bridges
Beautiful Kenya
Day to day life - a big challenge
Coral reef restoration project for and by local communities
Leaving...
A boost for my life - I would do it again in a heartbeat
Pole Pole - an easy misunderstanding
Happiness is made and not for sale
Word of thanks
Interested to help us?

Who is Peter?

Meet Peter. Peter is a biologist and nature conservationist who decided to dedicate the first few years of his career to saving coral reefs in Kenya.
He took a leap, gave up all his things in the Netherlands and left the country to find a new home.
Kenya warmed his heart, he set up a great project and after two years he returned home.
Read more about his story below in the interview below

What motivated you to emigrate to Kenya?

Several things motivated me to emigrate to Kenya. The main reason was what I was going to do there. I had been asked to help set up a coral reef restoration project. This did not come completely out of the blue because during my master's thesis in marine biology, I had already done research in Kenya on a similar project. So the request to help set up a second project came from the organization of that project, REEFolution. The choice was quickly made - and it helped that I already knew the country.

Covid...

In February 2020, three other marine biology graduates and I were supposed to go to Kenia to conduct a feasibility study for such a project at two sites. Then came covid... Our flights were canceled and we had no idea when we would be able to go again. The resorts that would house us for the study also closed and we could not go there. In September finally the moment came that we could tentatively fly again and the Swahili Beach Resort was willing to accommodate two marine biologists.

Burn your bridges

So... I left everything in the Netherlands, sold all my furniture, gave up rent, quit my job at Greenpeace and I got on the next flight. By burning my bridges there was no going back and I would do everything I could for the project.

Beautiful Kenya

Kenya is fantastic, the people are nice, it's warm, the beach is beautiful, the fruit is delicious. You can actually always be outside with monkeys and birds around you and you can always snorkel to see some beautiful sea life. It's a paradise. Unfortunately, it's also a paradise that is disappearing due to climate change and overfishing. So I had tremendous motivation to help preserve it.

Day to day life - a big challenge

In Kenya you really live from day to day, which is wonderful and peaceful on the one hand, but makes work sometimes difficult to plan. Because of this way of living, the mentality in Kenya is much more “why do it today if you can do it tomorrow,” which clashed tremendously with my own mentality of getting as much done in a day as possible. This was the biggest challenge for me, and in my opinion a big difference between the Dutch working mindset, and the Kenyan.

Coral reef restoration project for and by local communities

With Guido Paap and in collaboration with Swahili Beach Resort, Wageningen University, REEFolution and many volunteers, we set up Reefo divers Diani. A coral reef reclamation project and education dive base where we train local community members to become REEF Rangers. The REEF Rangers learn swimming, diving, giving presentations, ecology, coral reef restoration, coral and fish identification and even data collection. The intention is to eventually turn the project over to the local people.
On one of the photos you see me along with 4 locally trained REEF Rangers.

Leaving...

Finally with pain in my heart, I returned to the Netherlands after 2 years. My savings had run out and the promised funding was not forthcoming. We managed to raise some funds, but this covered training for the REEF Rangers and equipment. It didn't cover our own expenses. We also tried to generate income from the dive base with eco diving. But because of Covid, there was practically no tourism.
So eventually this led to the painful decision to move home for a more stable job.

A boost for my life - I would do it again in a heartbeat

I would do it again in a heartbeat and I recommend it to everyone. I learned more in these two years than during any course or study, and besides that, I had a fantastic time.

Pole Pole - an easy misunderstanding

Kenyans are super cheerful people and always up for a joke. A common misunderstanding came from the words “pole” meaning sorry and “pole pole” meaning calm down. Pole pole is therefore used quite often. But as a punctual and productivity-oriented Dutchman, I am more of the “araka raka” which means hurry up. So often when my Kenyan colleagues, the captain or REEF Rangers, said “pole pole” to me I would say “araka raka” in jest and they always had a good laugh about it. But one time the captain had made a mistake, so we couldn't dive that day and he said “pole pole pole” and I thought yeah hello nothing calm, I have to make up for the whole day now. So I said “araka raka” and then he looks at me funny and I him, until I realized that he said sorry 3x instead of calm down.

Happiness is made and not for sale

What inspired me enormously about Kenya is with how little people can be happy and how they still have time and a smile for you despite all the misery. Whereas in the Netherlands it is often a lot about individualism, money and consumption, in Kenya I saw how little that actually matters to be happy. At the same time, I saw in Kenya how they suffer from the consequences of our overconsumption and our search for “happiness” through money. Our consumption, CO2 emissions and mega-trawlers are endangering the future of their reefs. I wish I could impart that experience to every Westerner so that we can all live much happier and more sustainable lives.

Word of thanks

From the Netherlands I still support the project. In particular I would like to put Guido Paap in the spotlight, who has been volunteering most of his time to Reefo Divers Diani and educating local communities for over 4 years now. I would like to thank our Captain Ali and the REEF Rangers, the volunteers and our partners/sponsors.

Interested to help us?

Are you also interested in doing something for the ocean or do you want to learn how to restore coral reefs? You can learn this in Kenya, but we also have a partner in the Netherlands, Discovery Divers. They teach the same coral reef restoration course with which we train our REEF Rangers, and I usually help out one of the two course days. So this way I can still continue my work a little bit in the Netherlands.
Are you interested in the project, the course, or maybe you just have a question? Then contact me via linkedin.

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Interviews with emigrants, expats and world nomads around the world: Asia

Interviews with emigrants, expats and world nomads in Asia

Expat and emigration interviews: the story of Chris Way (UK) who emigrated to India and founded Reality Tours and Travel

What are your motivation and experiences emigrating from the UK to India?
How about the culture and social interactions in India?
What were the challenges while emigrating to India?
How about the practicalities and rules in India?

Who is Chris Way?

Meet Chris Way, who left the UK going to Spain when he was 17 years old. He has lived all over Asia for longer periods of time. His base is India, which he doesn't particulary like, but where he founded a charity: Reality Tours and Travel.

What are your motivation and experiences emigrating from the UK to India?

What do people need to know about you to understand your emigration story?

For me, it’s been quite simple. I didn’t want to live in the UK and I didn’t want to have a “normal” 9 to 5 lifestyle with a family. I’ve been interested in travel since going to Spain at 17 years old for several months as part of a school exchange program; the different language and culture as well as the warm weather was something that I wanted to experience more. The search for something different has been with me since then.

Was there a specific moment or event that inspired you to emigrate?

As mentioned above, I was always going to emigrate somewhere, but I chose India having spent several months there in 2002/2003 doing volunteer work and then having the idea to return there to start a business and charity.

How did you prepare?

Having travelled there already and without having any family commitments, it was pretty straight forward. I just bought a ticket and went! When there, I had to figure out how to start a company as a foreigner, which was a little complicated, and then having done this after some other research, my business partner and I started doing tours of Mumbai.

What is your life like, what kind of work or activities make you feel you are really “at home” in India?

My life now is very boring. In my first stint in Mumbai, I was quite involved with the expat community and used to organise frisbee every Sunday, but having returned post covid, I very much keep myself to myself, focusing on work and getting the business and charity back on its feet.
Now, there’s little that makes me feel really “at home” (whatever that means now). Similar to home, I try to exercise and eat well, although unfortunately the food is not really to my liking; too many spices, too much oil and little and very poor quality meat products.

How is your daily routine different from that in your home country?

It’s been such a long time now, but I suspect that I work harder than what I would do in my own country. But I think that’s more because I run my own business as opposed to being in a different country. As an organisation we used to work Saturday as many Indians do, but we now only work Monday to Friday.

Do you already have an idea about the future?

I’m planning to leave Mumbai in the not too distant future and escape to a more tourist friendly country like Thailand or Cambodia where there is less pollution and I hope to have better work life balance. I would continue to work remotely from there.

How about the culture and social interactions in India?

What was your first encounter with a local?

One of the first people that I met actually was my business partner. He served my table as a waiter and then the next day, I was in the park (where everybody was playing cricket) and he recognised me and asked me to join. It was fascinating spending time with somebody completely different, and he didn’t drink so we used to go for walks, chat and listen to music from a radio together.

Do you have any tips for meeting people?

Generally, and this doesn’t just relate to travel, I think it’s easier to meet people when you do something that you enjoy, like sports, because you meet people without trying. I’ve never liked the expat meet-ups, even if there is alcohol involved, because you end up telling your life story continuously, although I completely understand why.

What is the best or most inspiring thing about your emigration?

For me, the most rewarding thing is creating an organisation, employing local people, helping young people in the poorer communities, and seeing both sets of these people thrive.

What is the funniest or most painful misunderstanding you have experienced because of language or cultural differences?

I can’t think of anything in particular.

Have you adopted local customs?

My English when speaking in India changes so that people understand me, I have adopted the head wiggle occasionally, but otherwise I don’t think I’ve changed much.

How do locals react to the fact that you now live and work here?

Indian people love to stare so I still get a bit of that, but generally it’s fine. Certainly I’ve never had a problem with people here and it’s either big smiles but mostly indifference.

What is your favorite local tradition/festival?

I don’t like many of the festivals because the music and loud fireworks often go on until late in the night. I can understand why somebody new to India might enjoy Diwali or Holi, but for me it’s no longer of interest and it’s just nice to have a day at home relaxing.

Are there customs in social interaction that you found difficult to understand or had to get used to?

Not really.

How does friendship here differ from how it is perceived in your home country?

I don’t have many friends but there is certainly less abuse (“piss taking”) here in India, compared to the UK. This is nice in some ways.

What were the challenges while emigrating to India?

Have there been times when you had doubts about your choice, or what disappointed you?

I’m glad that I left the UK, but I do miss the Latin culture and I’ve seen a lot of Latin America. I speak Spanish well and when I’m in a Spanish speaking country, I feel at home. I don’t regret coming to India, and although I run a tour company, I’m not in love with India in the same way that many foreigners who come to India, do.

In retrospect, what would you have liked to know about India beforehand?

I had a pretty good idea what I was getting myself in to, having been here before.

What would you do differently next time and what would you want to give others with the same idea?

I would learn the language. Even though you can get by with English, I’ve missed out so much by not speaking Hindi. I keep telling myself to learn it, but keep putting it off

What was the biggest culture shock?

It wasn’t a shock but I still find it difficult to jump queues and bargain in markets. Crowded trains in Mumbai make crowded trains in the UK feel very spacious. Every day feels like a bit of a fight in Mumbai, as opposed to in Thailand for example. India is also in general a dirty place, which I don’t like.

How do you deal with loneliness?

Thankfully I’m good in my own company, so I don’t get that lonely and with my parents deceased, I don’t get homesick. I do miss a good steak and the food options that you get in the UK or Thailand.

Are there things you appreciate more about your homeland now that you are here?

Cleanliness and big supermarkets, which don’t exist in Mumbai.

How about the practicalities and rules in India?

How do you deal with bureaucracy in your new country?

I think of it as a cost of doing business and try not to get aggravated, although as a small business owner, it does get frustrating. Employing somebody to look after this makes it easier.

How did you find a suitable place to live?

Finding accommodation in Mumbai can be challenging as the quality of housing is generally not very good and landlords and housing associations can sometimes look unfavourably towards single people. When I first came to Mumbai to volunteer, I found a family (with a broker) to live with, and I stayed with them again when I returned.

Was it difficult? What are the biggest cost differences between this country and your home country?

You can either do Mumbai very cheap or very expensive, for everything. Imported foods such as olive oil and cheese can be very expensive, but eating out overall is much cheaper.

What did you learn about insurance, taxes and other financial obligations abroad?

I don’t have insurance and initially I found out about tax information from an accountant. Now it’s all online.

Have you used local health care (family doctor, specialist, dentist, etc.) and what stands out to you?

Getting testing done (eg blood tests) are incredibly cheap, and I have an overseas nutritionist who I consult with online using this testing to help. I used to use a local dentist, but I prefer my dentist in the UK. I haven’t had to use a family doctor so far, and I think it would be a challenge to find somebody suitable but that’s also because I’m wary of traditional medicine.

What is similar or totally different from health care in the United Kingdom?

Compared to the UK, my understanding is that the consultants are very blunt and to the point, and there’s not much discussion between doctor and patient. The facilities seem to be pretty good, and it’s a lot cheaper.

What is useful for others to consider?

Not many people from the West stay longer than two years. Unless you really love the country and/or are doing something that you love, that will probably be enough time.

Are there any specific issues or tips around 'safety' or 'health' that are useful for other people who are going to live or work in India?

Despite some occasional bad press, India, and Mumbai in particular, is very safe; I don’t feel at all uncomfortable late at night for example.

What kind of company/good cause have you founded?

Along with my business partner we have created a tour company Reality Tours and Travel that does tours throughout India and 80% of the profits go to our charity which runs educational programs in poorer communities.

Why did you choose this work/company and what is the bureaucracy like in the country you are in?

As mentioned before, the bureacracy is a headache but I have people who generally deal with it.

How do you stay in touch with home?

Apart from with my sister and uncle, I’m not in touch with many people in the UK

What are some communication problems you have encountered?

British humour, in particular sarcasm, often doesn’t work in India and people often look at you confused. English in India is not so different but sometimes my “accent” makes it harder for some to understand.

What have you learned?

We’re all the same.

Bali emigration story: rescuing animals

Meet Marieke. Marieke is an expat from the Netherlands who accidentally got stuck in Bali during Covid. Her life changed, without regrets. She enjoys the Balinese spirit, nature, beaches, but mostly her work with her own charity Bali Animal Care. Every day she's busy rescuing and helping animals on the streets of Bali. Read more about her emigration story and her work below.

How are your experiences emigrating to Bali?
How is the culture in Bali and how are the social interactions in Bali?
What are the challenges during your move to Bali?
What are the practicalities in Bali?
How is your daily life in Bali?
What is the charity you set up in Bali?

How are your experiences emigrating to Bali?

What should people know about you to understand your emigration story?

I lived in different countries as a child and have traveled a lot in my later life. So I have always felt comfortable with different ways of life and with traveling.

Was there a specific moment or event that inspired you to emigrate to Bali?

Covid! I was supposed to go to Indonesia for a limited time, but because of Covid I ended up stuck in Bali. So I didn't prepare for emigration at all, because that was not my plan at all. I had also been traveling in Europe for a while. So I had already put my stuff in a storage box and sold my house, I thought I'll see what happens when I get back!

What does your life look like, what kind of work or activities make you feel like you are really 'at home' in Bali?

During the beginning of Covid, a lot of people left Bali - in a hurry and without their pets. There were already many stray dogs and cats, but that number increased enormously. When I came across Happy, the dog on the beach, emaciated and abandoned, my life changed. I couldn't leave him behind and managed to catch him and take him to a clinic. Happy eventually recovered and now he lives with me in my house. During that same year, 2020, I saved several rescues - dogs and cats - from the streets, had them treated in a local clinic and adopted them or found new homes for them. This was the start of Bali Animal Care, something that gives me enormous satisfaction.

How is your daily routine in Bali different from in the Netherlands?

My routine is completely different. In Bali you do everything on the scooter. In the morning I go to the beach with 3 of my dogs on the scooter and on the way I feed stray dogs. If animals need help, I have them picked up and then treated in a local clinic. Once in a healthy condition, I look for a new loving home or shelter for them. I am busy with that all day long. Sometimes I eat out or order something, but there are also many nice shops here with western food (such as sourdough bread) where I like to go and get healthy food.

Do you already have an idea about the future?

Then you are asking the wrong person. I have learned to live in the now (perhaps something I have retained from my time in India) and am therefore not concerned with the future. I will see about that later!

How is the culture in Bali and how are the social interactions in Bali?

What was your first encounter with a local resident in Bali? How did that go?

The encounter with a local resident was very pleasant. The people are friendly, which is also deeply rooted in Balinese culture. You can easily make contact because locals usually speak a little English.

What is the best or most inspiring thing about your emigration to Bali?

That it was completely spontaneous and organic. No plan, it just happened. As I said, I don't really think about the future and I see how things go.

What is the funniest or most painful misunderstanding you have experienced due to language or cultural differences?

The most painful misunderstanding is that I cannot communicate when there is a problem because I do not speak the language well enough.

Have you adopted any local customs in Bali?

Not many because that is not necessarily necessary in Bali, but you can hardly avoid them as an expat - I also drive a scooter like everyone else here and have learned to drive like the locals. That takes some getting used to at first, but nothing ventured, nothing gained!

How do locals react to the fact that you now live and work in Bali?

Bali has long been a popular place for foreigners. Locals always react positively to the fact that I live here and am from the Netherlands. If you also respect them and their culture, you will get that back.

What is your favorite local tradition/holiday in Bali?

Nyepi, Bali's New Year's Day - Silence Day is my favorite holiday. It is quiet on the entire island. The airport closes for 24 hours. No one is allowed to leave their house, no lights on or noise, no talking. A day for contemplation. Really special!

How does friendship in Bali differ from how it is experienced in your home country?

People quickly call you a friend here. That is different with us. Another beautiful aspect of Balinese culture.

Did you learn the local language and if so, how?

I started learning Bahasa Indonesia via duolingo but after a while I stopped as didn't find enough time. Luckily we can use Google Translate these days, and most people around me speak some English.

How do you keep in touch with home?

Simple WhatsApp calls and messages. It's very easy nowadays!

What are some communication obstacles you've encountered?

It's important to be kind and patient while communicating with locals. Communication is different, sometimes people will say yes or maybe just to be polite, when they actually mean no. Or communication can be slow and unclear.

What are the challenges during your move to Bali?

Were there moments when you doubted your emigration to Bali?

No, I never doubted, life goes as it goes and now I am here! I also did not experience any disappointments, of course you encounter things everywhere, but that is part of life.

What would you do differently next time and what would you advise others with the same idea?

If you are planning to move to Bali, make sure you have your scooter/motorcycle license, that will save you hassle!

What was the biggest culture shock in Bali?

That animals are often poorly cared for. You see so many animals here that have been abandoned, abused or simply not cared for properly at home. This is difficult to see.

Are there things you appreciate more about the Netherlands now that you are here?

Many things are well organised in the Netherlands, and having seasons is also wonderful!

What are the practicalities in Bali?

How do you deal with the administrative hassle in your new country?

I have an agent for this! That is definitely recommended and saves a lot of hassle.

How did you find a suitable place to live in Bali? Was it difficult?

During covid I was able to easily find accommodation through a friend

What are the biggest differences in costs between Bali and the Netherlands?

The housing costs are a lot lower here, but also daily necessities and, for example, doctor visits. The costs have increased in recent years due to tourism.

Have you used local healthcare in Bali (GP, specialist, dentist, etc.) and what is it like?

Yes, I have regularly used local healthcare (GP and dentist). The care is good and cheaper and I have good experiences with both - also with hospitalization. It is best to rely on the experiences of other expats, so which doctors they recommend. Make sure you have good insurance.

How is your daily life in Bali?

Have you developed new hobbies or interests since living in Bali?

Rescuing animals in need, having them treated and trying to find them a new home gives enormous fulfillment.

What do you do in your free time to feel connected to yourself and your environment?

Yoga & meditation, listen to music, enjoy peace.

What local traditions or rituals in Bali have inspired or touched you?

The daily offerings at my house done by my landlord. Every day the locals bring offerings to the Hindu gods in a beautiful ritual with incense and flowers. It's an ancient ritual full of respect and beauty.

What is the charity you set up in Bali?

What kind of charity have you set up?

Due to my passion for animals, I set up Bali Animal Care during Covid. We are a charity for the many Bali animals in need and the work never stops. Every day we are busy helping animals and finding homes for them. You can read more, see the links, about our animals and us on our website and instagram.

We are completely dependent on donations and are therefore always looking for donors. The help we receive determines how many animals we can help. Sometimes people abroad adopt one of the animals, but this is quite a process (which I help and give advise on). In other cases people sponsor an animal with a monthly donation or with one-off donations until we find the animal a home. We always need help so take a look at the website or come visit us when you are in Bali!

Expat and emigration interviews: Michel as a missionary to expat from Germany to multiple Asian countries

Meet Michel, a die-hard emigrant for many years. He has lived all over Asia for longer periods of time, in different Asian countries: Japan, Thailand, China, Philippines. You can read below about his story of adaptibility.

How are your experiences emigrating to Asia?
How did you survive in Asia?
How is the culture in Asia and how are interactions with the Asians?
How are your social interactions in Asia?
What are the practicalities in Asia?

How are your experiences emigrating to Asia?

What should people know about you to understand your emigration story?

There are people that leave home for a time and usually maintain a residence and ties in the place they come from. Mostly tourists, travelers or employees of one sort or the other. Then there are 'emigres'. They don't necessariy plan to ever go back to where they came from. Explorers, adventurers, refugees, fugitives , missionaries, and the like. A high-risk, often uprooted make or break crowd that has been around for ever. I am one of those.

Where in that list do you place yourself in?

My wife and I were Christian missionaries. Our goal was to establish a mission overseas.

Why did you choose to become a missionary as work?

It wasn't 'work'. We felt called. The Bible had stated that God would take care of his own as long as they did what they were supposed to do. Tomorrow would always take care of itself. We had decided to put that to a serious real life test. For the ten years we lived by that rule, we never missed a meal for lack of resources. After that, it felt as if we were drawing pensions, like soldiers that had fought in a war.

How did you choose to go to Asia?

I always knew that I would leave home as soon as I could. Preferably go somewhere where it was warm. The weather in my part of Europe was unbearable, I thought. Too much rain and cold.

How did you prepare to go to Asia?

Warm clothes, since we travelled in winter. A companion to keep warm and 750 USD in cash between the two of us. Minimum target was to reach India overland. From there on, who knows? It was a high- wire act that, in good conscience, I would not recommend. (unless I really dislike you ) 750 USD could not have brought you very far.

How did you survive in Asia?

Good question. Any half way sane person could rightfully feel justified to call us insane. Life moves like a river. Some prefer to stay on land. Some prefer calm waters. We had jumped into very rough whitewater, the kind that completely takes over the course of your life. No smartphones, credit cards, debit cards, travel insurance. You end up getting smashed up on the rocks or maybe one day you get bundled over a waterfall, think your done in but suddenly find yourself in slow moving gentle water. How did we survive? Honestly, I can't tell. My best answer would be ' by the grace of God'.

What have you learned in Asia?

If you mainly talk survival or prospering in a foreign country, the most important ability of all is adaptability. If you don't cultivate that, better stay home or go on tours. I have been an activist, a missionary, teacher, trader, speculator, financial consultant, business consultant, agent, gambler, publisher, journalist, movie editor, writer, actor. Whitewater rivers make sure you never stay in one spot very long. Accept what and who you really are. Avoid excessive fear of change and be adaptable.

What makes you feel like you are truly ‘at home’ in a country?

'Living ' in a country needs to be defined. For me it means ,at a bare minimum, the country needs to be the center of your life. You own or rent a place, pay utility bills, work, or are retired there, have established a social and legal structure to consider it 'home'. Sharing a pillow with a native helps greatly. You don't think of outbound flights that you can't miss.

How is your daily routine different from in your home country?

I never had a routine to speak of in my country of origin. I still don't have one, aside from breakfast. Everything else is negotiable. Never had a 9-5 job in my life.

Do you already have an idea about the future?

Absolutely none, except that I want my campsite to be tidy when it comes to my time for leaving.

Are there things you appreciate more about your home country now? How do you deal with homesickness/loneliness? What do you miss most?

By my strict criteria, I have lived in, at least, five countries. Never been homesick for a moment. Sometimes I think of the food of my childhood. My mother was a certified chef and sous-chef in a resort hotel. I was spoiled absolutely dead rotten in that respect. As for the rest, no big deal.

What was your first encounter with a local resident in some of the places you stayed?

I won't name the country, but it was my first encounter. A guy walks up to me, 'You want to sell your travellers checks, I pay you... ?' Another place, my first cabbie has a taxi that looks like a shrine to several seemingly benevolent deities. Then he wants to overcharge me by about 300%. Someone had warned me and so I just paid him the correct price. He said ' thank you', no argument. I wondered what the deities were up to. Smiling.

How is the culture in Asia and how are interactions with the Asians?

What is the funniest or most painful misunderstandings you have experienced due to cultural differences?

I walked into a private apartment in Japan with my street shoes on. We were doomed right there and then. In short. ' Don't do that!' Under no circumstances!
A Sikh has a food stall at a dusty, hellishly hot land border between the Punjab and Pakistan. He sells curry, tea and Coca-Cola. ' Not too spicy. please', I say.' Do not worry, verrry mild, verrry mild', he says. I almost caught fire and have remained scarred for life, no kidding.

Have you adopted any local customs?

Too many to list. St.Paul in the Bible said 'When in Rome, do as the Romans do'. Couldn't say it any better. He was a smart missionary.

What is your favorite local tradition/holiday?

Any tradition that gets a lot of people to leave the big cities. Traffic becomes manageable all of a sudden.

Are there habits in social interaction that you found difficult to understand or get used to?

'When you are free drop by'. You will hear that in any Chinese culture dominated place once one has concluded some social interaction. Do not think that they actually mean that! You might get the door slammed in your face, or at least the verbal equivalent to it. It's just the polite thing to say. More funny than difficult once you get the drift. They just want you to feel good. That took a bit to get used to. That and all the ways to say 'No' without actually saying 'No'.

What was the biggest culture shock?

There was none. I was never hung up on culture. Expect things to be different and enjoy it, and if they are not, fair enough. Over the years with all that travel and information exchange, with some notable exceptions, stuff like that has become more of a rural and generational thing. Inform yourself about the basics before you go and don't do stupid stuff that you wouldn't do at home either. Have manners.

How are your social interactions in Asia?

Do you have any tips for meeting people?

Be a nice person. Everybody likes to meet nice people. Be accessible. Nobody likes an arrogant idiot.

How do locals react to you living and working in their places?

I was the only foreigner in a middle class neighborhood. A neighbor invites me to have a beer on his pateo. He had read in the paper that some foreigners had been attacked by 'right-wing' elements in Europe. Tell me, he says, 'is Europe full of such things?
'Why do you invite me for a beer? I ask him. ' You're ok. he says, You're polite and don't make any trouble'. 'What would you say if there were fifty foreigners on this street and some of them would misbehave, insult your women and stuff like that. What would you do?'
We'd throw them out, he goes. ' Cheers.'

How does friendship here differ from how it is experienced in your home country?

That can be a touchy subject. To become real friends, you have to open up to each other in some way. In my personal experience I have found it to be much easier to become real friends with the opposite sex than with my own. Notably, in some places that were previously colonised, some men appear to feel somewhat conflicted when it comes to foreigners, especially Caucasians. The historical and cultural fault lines can be felt more often with men than with women.

Did you learn local languages and if so, how?

When I first arrived in Asia, you simply had to learn them. I enrolled in a university. If you didn't, you remained in a ghetto of sorts. It has changed a lot since then but it is still good to speak the local language at least passably. A guy I knew in Thailand spoke better Thai than the locals . So called 'King's Thai'. Many locals actually resented that. Funny, isn't it. Talking about culture.

What are the practicalities in Asia?

How do you deal with the red tape in a new country?

Hire someone reliable to do it for you. Find someone that has been recommended if it's about complicated issues.

What was the most difficult rule to understand/follow in Asia?

Things aren't always done the way that they make sense to you. See whether you can manage to go with the flow. If that doesn't work, think!
I remember buying a train ticket somewhere in Pakistan. High noon. A brutal sweating contest among a bunch of foreigners. I am second in line. We'd been baking for hours. The guy ahead of me holds out his fare but the clerk slams down the window. Lunchtime. The big Italian of goes ballistic. I have a cheap bright blue ball pen and kind of pleadingly wave it at the clerk behind the window. The window goes up a few inches. 'You have a nice pen', he says, peeping through the gap, 'Can i see'? 'Sure,' I push it towards him. 'Where do you want to go'? See what I mean?

How did you find a suitable place to live in Asia?

Rental agents.

What are the biggest differences in costs between all the countries to live in Asia and your home country?

There are no hard and fast rules. It depends on many things. Your financial situation and your expectations. Most of all on the country of your choice.

What have you learned about insurance, taxes and other financial obligations abroad?

Same answer. Play by the rules and be smart. Info is easily available these days. But double or even triple-check all crucial info.

Have you used local healthcare in Asia (GP, specialist, dentist etc.) and what do you notice?

No. Never had an insurance for anything in my life. (Please do not try this at home)

What is useful for others to know/take into account?

Have clear ideas about what you think you should have in terms of what I call 'personal infrastructure'. See what is available and what you can afford. Choose wisely. There are people that get overwhelmed by new places and before they know it, they go bust. Back home to Mommy, if that is Plan B. Budget if you have to.

Have you developed new hobbies or interests since living abroad?

I have studied Astrology, the theory of probability and how to use it when betting on soccer matches. In spite of that I still consider myself sane. I have an average mid-sixty percent win/loss record. Has paid a few bills.

Are there any projects or activities that you are involved in that give you a sense of fulfillment? What do you do in your free time to feel connected to yourself and your environment?

I write about my life and about many other things I have observed. I also occasionally talk with friends that I feel are fun to talk with. Actually, I am busy all day.

What local traditions or rituals have inspired or touched you?

One of the first things I noticed when I first arrived in this strange continent was the respect for elders that was shown by the younger generation. They were aware of the fact that everything, every little thing they had,had been handed down to them by their elders who had built it, worked for it. It is a shame to see this being eroded by a generation of contact with our supposedly 'superior ' and 'progressive' western culture with its steady supply of new gadgets and the worship of shareholder value.

For you, what was the best thing about the choices you have made?

I followed my convictions. It wasn't supposed to work out but it did. I'm back to the whitewater example. That way, you either crash or even drown, or have a remarkable ride. I had much, much too much 'luck' for it to be expected. Probability does not account for what happened in my life, not by a long shot. So now I know that. Is there anything else I need to know? I give all the glory to God.

"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Juliette Kwee - The Philippines

Who?

Juliette Kwee

Where?

The Philippines, Manila

Which initiative?

Smokey Tours

What?

Smokey Tours offers Slum Tours, Bicycle Tours, Market Tours & several other tours for visiting travelers & local Filipinos.

Something special?

Slum tour: slums are a whole other world. A world which at first glance seems so different to what the majority of the visitors are used to. We see people working hard peeling garlic, scavenging for recyclable goods and making food out of leftovers from garbage bins. Life is tough, it's dirty but it's not a depressing place. People are smiling and getting on with life. Visit one of Manila's poorest areas where people try to live and work and call home. Understand the issues that the residents face, and discover resilience in its truest form.
Cemetery tour: discover why some people choose to live inside a cemetery and learn about the beliefs and superstitions of Filipino's.
Education & skills development: Smokey Tours educates impoverished people to become professional tour leaders.Tour leaders of Smokey Tours improve their English, learn tour leading and leadership skills.

And last but not least...a little insight in 'Why'

In January 2011, Juliette Kwee organized a photo tour for Bahay at Yaman ni San Martin de Porres (BYSMP). This ‘photo walk’ portrayed the way children live in the area of Tondo, specifically Smokey Mountain. 20 local photographers volunteered and donated their photographs. Juliette discovered the talents of the residents of Smokey Mountain: they tell stories about their neighbourhood with passion, pride and dignity.
The idea of a special tour was born. Juliette started recruiting and coaching potential tour leaders. To professionally develop the tours Juliette reached out to international likeminded organizations that were already offering slum tours in Brazil and India.
The Smokey Mountain tour became Smokey Tours’ signature tour (hence the name of the organization). Since the very beginning all the profit made with the Smokey Tours is donated to local NGO's. Smokey Tours now offers several different tours and keeps seeking improvement and growth opportunities.
Connecting Two Worlds
The Dutch psychologist Juliette Kwee, who has been living in the Philippines since 2008 and not new to volunteer activities, felt something stir within her during her first visit to Smokey Mountain, a poverty stricken area located in Tondo, Manila. Kwee could not help but notice the difference between Smokey Mountain and its neighboring area, Makati City. Kwee shares, “I went to Smokey Mountain and I was so touched by the community. But I also sometimes go to this posh park in Makati and I was shocked. It’s only half an hour from each other. I started thinking, ‘how can we connect this two worlds?’”
Kwee knew she has to use a tool that will appeal to Filipinos from all walks of life. She concluded: “What do Filipinos like? Filipinos like taking photos. We organized a photowalk and called some photographers to take photos of the children and to show the resiliency of the community.” The photos, which were put up in an exhibition, sent a powerful message that one could be happy without material things as long there is love, food, and the opportunity for education.
Kwee says that the special tour took shape when she worked with the Smokey Mountain residents and area officers. “I met some tanods at that time and I was amazed at how they could talk about where they’re from and what they’re doing with pride. “Why is there not a slum tour here?” she shares. Kwee sought the help of Chris Way, the co-founder of India-based Reality Tours & Travel, which won the Community Award at the World Travel and Tourism Council's (WTTC) 2015 Tourism for Tomorrow Awards Ceremony in Madrid, Spain. “I want to train people who can take their own initiative. To be empowered and to take responsibility. People are smart enough to make their own decisions,” Kwee says.
Smokey Tours has expanded its list of activities. Aside from the slum tour, tourists can now explore Manila while cycling, go to cemeteries and other local spots, and experience Old Manila. As a testament to the organization’s excellence, “Smokey Tours” has been ranked number one on TripAdvisor.
Anno 2025 BYSMP Bless the Children is still conducting the different tours, check the link for more information.

"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Roos Tieges & Ingrid van der Straaten - Thailand

Who?

Roos Tieges
Ingrid van der Straaten

Where?

Thailand

Which Initiative?

TCDF, Thai Child Development Foundation
Eco-Logic, the 'Resort for Charity'

What?

The Thai Child Development Foundation (TCDF) supports local children in their development by making sure that customized medical care and education is also available to underprivileged children and children with disabilities or learning disorders.
Local Thai team members provide social support programs (medical care, education) together with daily life caregivers to underpriviledged children in their own village/community
Other projects where TCDF team and local+international volunteers work hands-on: emergenct funds, physiotherapy, nutrition programs, scholarships, occupational training center and perma culture farm, community learning center

Something special?

At TCDF they believe that the social outreach work can only be done well by working with local people who can develop a long-term bond of trust with the children and their caregivers through constant communication.
TCDF take care of children in their own community, without taking them out of their homes and never longer than needed
International and Thai volunteers open up the worlds of the children and the members of the forest community by sharing their (often unique!) skills and knowledge within the community learning center, yoga center and/ or on the organic farm.
TCDF try to limit damage to the environment. They are strict in handling garbage, reusing garbage, and recycling.
Eco-Logic, Resort for Charity with tourist accommodation, workshops, and tour packages, is on the same property of the Foundation. This sister company of TCDF is a Thai for profit company and is TCDF's main sponsor.

And last but not least...a little insight in 'Why'

TCDF is founded by a charitable Thai/Dutch family and has supported children in need on a direct and day to day base in Thailand since 2004. Ingrid van der Straaten has been TCDF’s full time volunteer and ambassador since the very beginning when she, and Rosalie decided to make a difference and dedicate their lives to this initiative! The other TCDF's directing founder, Rosalie Tieges, lives with her Thai family within walking distance of the Foundation; other Dutch board members live in Holland.The TCDF Community is a global network of people that believe in acting local and contributing to make a difference. The Thai board members are all people from the village including the village headman and active parents of children in the social programs.

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"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Frans Betgem - Thailand

Who?

Frans Betgem

Where?

Thailand

Which Initiative?

Green Trails

What?

Green Trails: 1-2-3-+4 day(s) trekking tours, trails and exploration tours with an emphasis on and respect for local culture
Chiang Mai a la Carte: "umbrella" website about Chiang Mai with a focus on festivals, traditions, architecture, culture and meaningful encounters
Tong Bai Elephant Tour: elephant friendly day tour about the issue of the involvement of captive elephants in tourism
Chiang Mai on Three Wheels: Chiang Mai tours by samlor (bicycle taxi)

Something special?

Chiang Mai on Three Wheels, a social tourism enterprise, aims to preserve the samlor, a Chiang Mai heritage, as a means of transportation in the future. With these samlor tours they try to improve the livelihood of the taxi drivers by offering them jobs and (extra) education. In the old days, before the age of the automobile, there were hundreds of samlors in Chiang Mai. Nowadays there are less than 70.
Family Tours: these tours include trekking but also interactive and educational elements, with several trekking itineraries in the Chiang Dao area. This area is very suitable for family tours; there are lots of villages and lots of children.

And last but not least...a little insight in 'Why'

Frans Betgem is a Dutch national who has been living in Chiang Mai for more than 20 years. Frans' travels brought him to Southeast Asia in 1987. In 1990 he started working for Baobab Travel as a tourleader in Thailand. Frans worked for this company in Thailand, Vietnam, Indonesia, Philippines and Australia from 1990 until 1998. In 2012 he started his own business in Chiang Mai, Tiger Trail, nowadays re-branded as Green Trails. Green Trails commit to offer the best and most innovative cultural, outdoor and trekking tours in North Thailand. Green Trails believes in sustainable and responsible travel and always tries to create meaningful experiences, both for visitors and for the host communities.

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Expat and emigration interviews: the story of Non from Japan who emigrated to the USA and the Philippines

Who is Non?

Non feels at home everywhere. She emigrated from Japan first to the USA and after to the Philippines.

What was your motivation emigrating to the Philippines?
How are your social interactions in the Philippines?
How are the practical things arranged in the Philippines?

What was your motivation emigrating to the Philippines?

Why did you emigrate to the Philippines?

I wanted to know more about Asia.

What should people know about you to understand your emigration story?

I had been to the US for almost ten years, having a lot of American friends. I thought I should know about Asia as I am a part of it. I think I am a so called a traveler or an employee. There was not any definite plan when I was in Manila at the time. I thought to settle a place to live and find a decent job then.

Why did you choose this work?

I had a referral from a friend of mine and got a job at a travel agency to assess Japan Visa for three years plus. Then, I decided to start a business.

How did you choose your destination?

I had a Filipino friend.

How did you prepare?

I cleaned up all my belongings, packed some into four suitcases.

What have you learned?

I have moved to overseas multiple times. I just go on.

What makes you feel like you are truly ‘at home’ in the Philippines?

If you have your own bed or bedroom every night, it will be your home, regardless of its location.

How is your daily routine different from in your home country?

The daily routine is set by yourself, doesn’t it?

Do you already have an idea about the future?

I just live today or this moment. I don’t expect future any hope or wish but without any desperate feeling. No one knows what happens next moment.

Are there things you appreciate more about your home country now ? How do you deal with homesickness?

In my days in abroad I had never had homesickness. I missed food in Japan though hence it doesn’t mean I missed Japanese style food, but food in Japan which has plain taste it’s umami with less fat.

How are your social interactions in the Philippines?

What was your first encounter with a local resident in some of the places you stayed?

I had met many Americans or Filipinos in Japan before I moved there. I had basic idea of them.

What is the funniest or most painful misunderstandings you have experienced due to cultural differences?

Filipinos switch (i) and (e), and (u) and (o) when they read out. It is hard to understand.

Have you adopted any local customs?

What is your favorite local tradition/holiday?

Well, opposite though. I hated their Christmas.

Are there habits in social interaction that you found difficult to understand or get used to?

Filipinos weigh their family a lot. They often say “pinsan” as their member of their family. Pinsan means cousin. When they say it, you have to understand he/she is not a cousin you understand. They say pinsan as even third cousin which is considered nobody in our culture.

What was the biggest culture shock?

They consider foreigners are all richer than they are.

Do you have any tips for meeting people?

Filipinos are overall very friendly.

How do locals react to you living and working in their places?

I could blend into them easily.

How does friendship here differ from how it is experienced in your home country?

Some well educated people are now very good friends of mine now. My employees are I feel like still my family.

How are the practical things arranged in the Philippines?

Did you learn local languages and if so, how?

I signed up a Tagalog language school for a while. I was the worst student.

What was the most difficult rule to understand/follow?

When my coworker or employee made mistakes, I couldn’t scold them. They are so fragile, they can’t tolerate from the warnings by others.

How did you find a suitable place to live?

I just bought a condo unit in a mall area.

Was it difficult?

Under Philippine business style, it was hectic process for me, however for Filipino it was smooth. The price was super reasonable.

What have you learned about insurance, taxes and other financial obligations abroad?

Taxes are pain in a butt everywhere.

Have you used local healthcare (GP, specialist, dentist etc.) and what do you notice?

I often went back to Japan. I got my medication there, received medical checks.

What is useful for others to know?

I have no idea. The price is not easy everywhere.

Have you developed new hobbies or interests since living abroad?

I had learned freediving.

Are there any projects or activities that you are involved in that give you a sense of fulfillment? What do you do in your free time to feel connected to yourself and your environment?

I supported the poor. Invoked with SDG’s as well. Still sponsoring a working law college student.

What local traditions or rituals have inspired or touched you?

Vets do a lot of volunteering work, catching stray animals, feeding.

For you, what was the best thing about your choices?

My employees are all from extremely poor environment. Through the employment, their life turned better. I met them a few years ago about three years absence, they grew more. They looked more stable and economically settled.

Expat and emigration interviews: the story of Wouter, who went from the Netherlands to Indonesia

Wouter, 51, born and raised in North Holland, the Netherlands. He has been living in Malang Indonesia with his wife and son since 2016.

What has been your motivation to emigrate to Indonesia?
What is the culture like in Indonesia?
What are the challenges of living in Indonesia?
How are the practical rules in Indonesia?
Are there any specific issues or tips around ‘safety’ or ‘health’ that would be useful for other people who are going to live in Indonesia for a long time?

What has been your motivation to emigrate to Indonesia?

What do people need to know about you to understand your emigration story?

Nothing special; we were at the point of looking for renewal and improved quality of life.

Was there a specific moment or event that inspired you to emigrate?

My wife had a lot of disagreements with the nursery around how to raise the child. Having more time for your child was definitely something that played into the decision to leave the Netherlands behind.

How did you prepare?

Spent 1.5 months in Indonesia looking for a new home and exploring the culture (again).

What does your life look like, what kind of work or activities make you feel you are really ‘at home’ in Indonesia?

In daily life, our son's life is actually central; school and the activities around it such as sports club, tutoring and his social life.

How does your daily routine differ from that in your home country?

Much less stress, due to better weather and climate and friendlier people. And the convenience of a daily domestic help, so you have more time for other things.

Do you have any ideas about the future yet?

I am going to live in Indonesia forever. We still enjoy every day here.

What is the culture like in Indonesia?

What was your first encounter with a local?

That encounter was during a previous holiday.

How did that go?

Local people are always positive towards the Dutch, regardless of the colonial past. Something that surprised me somewhat. People are not as concerned with this as in the Netherlands, strangely enough.

Do you have any tips for meeting people?

Connecting with local people is very easy. Almost everyone lives outside, so when you walk out to throw away rubbish, to do some shopping or to take your child to school, you can always chat with local people.

What is the best or most inspiring thing about your emigration?

How easy it is to arrange a permanent residence permit and good health insurance.

If you prepare well beforehand and visit the right agencies, the government is helpful to foreigners. The young officials are very modern and very capable. All procedures can be arranged online and no long waits are required. I would even dare to say it is better regulated than in the Netherlands.

What is the funniest or most painful misunderstanding you have experienced because of language or cultural differences?

Like the Dutch language, Indonesia has thousands of local languages and accents. My Indonesian is naturally spoken with a foreign accent. When I try to order something at a warung or restaurant, they often don't understand me. They don't expect a foreigner not to speak English to them. After 3-4 seconds of ‘thinking time’, I repeat my question, only then is it the ‘Aha, oh yes!’ moment for them.

Have you adopted local customs?

Yes, I can't imagine not eating rice now; I have to eat a hot meal with rice at least once daily.

How do locals react to the fact that you now live and work here?

Not particularly actually, in recent years, more and more foreigners are living and working in Malang.

What is your favourite local tradition/festival?

The fasting month or called Ramadhan and Eid or Idul Fitri (sugar festival) actually, because the local people are extra happy; it's very nice to see. There are a lot more roadside food stalls and the whole month celebrates actually. There is a very positive vibe.

Are there any customs in social interaction that you found difficult to understand or had to get used to?

Because of religion and tradition, men are considered the cornerstone of the family; The man is the head of the family here in most cases. But over the years, Indonesian women have become increasingly independent and empowered.

How does friendship here differ from how it is perceived in your home country?

Not much difference really, many people put their own lives and family first. Little time to really meet up or catch up.

What are the challenges of living in Indonesia?

Have there been times when you doubted your choice/emigration, or what disappointed you?

No doubts at all actually. We weighed all the factors (pros and cons) very carefully before making the decision.

In retrospect, what would you have liked to know about Indonesia beforehand?

It is not at all easy to work abroad, in any country.

What would you do differently next time and what would you give others with the same idea?

Gather good information around arranging residence permits, as it can save you thousands of euros a year.

Because of religion, men here have more privileges than women.

What skill did you never think you would need but have developed?

Flexibility; I was always agile as a steel tube in terms of time and schedule.

What do you miss the most from the Netherlands?

I am not homesick and don't really miss anything, almost everything is available here, actually there is more to get here than in the Netherlands.

Are there things you appreciate more about your homeland now that you are here?

Actually no, I actually see a decline in the Netherlands since I left. Both politically and economically. Other than that, of course, I remain a Dutchman and love my country of origin.

How are the practical rules in Indonesia?

How do you cope with the bureaucracy in your new country?

Well actually, we arranged permanent residence permit and driving licence in the first year. As long as you prepare well, speak the language well and are willing to arrange all the papers yourself (without a middleman), everything goes very smoothly.

What was the most difficult rule to understand/follow?

There are no rules in traffic, despite the difficult test for getting your driving licence. Traffic is literally a jungle.

How did you find a suitable place to live?

My in-laws had an empty house available for us.

Was it difficult? What are the biggest cost differences between this country and your home country?

Unfortunately, in the past 2 years, food prices have risen by 75%. Indonesia's VAT is the highest in Southeast Asia. Even so, fixed expenses such as water, electricity and wifi are much lower than in the Netherlands.

What did you learn about insurance, taxes and other financial obligations abroad?

My wife arranges them with our tax advisor.

Have you used local healthcare (GP, specialist, dentist, etc.) and what do you notice?

Not really notice any differences.

What is similar or totally different from Dutch healthcare?

The procedure of using health care is pretty much the same as in the Netherlands. First go to the GP, only then ask for a referral letter to make an appointment with the specialists at the hospital.

What is useful for others to consider?

Use BPJS government health insurance. It is very affordable and the procedures are pretty much the same as in the Netherlands.

Are there any specific issues or tips around ‘safety’ or ‘health’ that would be useful for other people who are going to live in Indonesia for a long time?

Give respect to local culture and customs. Wear neat clothes with sleeves and neat sandals. Except in Bali, don't wear clothes that are too short or too bare. This has nothing to do with freedom, but it has more to do with showing respect.

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Interviews with emigrants, expats and world nomads around the world: Central America

Interviews with emigrants, expats and world nomads in Central America

"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Ingrid Lommers - Costa Rica & Panama

Who?

Ingrid (Ins) Lommers

Where?

Panama and Costa Rica

Which initiative?

Spanish at Locations

What?

Spanish Language courses, accommodation, travel & outdoor activities, volunteering

Something special?

Spanish courses at 5 locations: Enroll in spanish courses AND have the freedom to travel around. Five seamless schools allow you to choose your own adventure without losing academic continuity. Stay put in one place, pick your own path, or join the Travelling Spanish Classroom on a 4 week guided trip to experience true adventure-education.
Camping at “Gekui Pacuare River Camp”, Turrialba: 2, 3 or 4 day rafting trip on the Pacuare. It can also be part of a hiking trip. Once at the campsite, you will sleep on elevated platforms that will put you in direct contact with the sights and sounds of the tropical rain forest. Extra possibility: candlelight family style dinners!
Virtual Spanish Courses: Jumpstart or retain what you learned: length, location and topic of classes can be customized.

And last but not least...a little insight in 'Why'

(by: Ingrid Lommers)
After deciding I had to be a business person, make money, buy and do everything I desired, I subsequently finished business school and took a job. I was only 20 years old and one day I looked out of the windows of the fancy office of the importer/exporter company of sports shoes where I was working at the time. I stared at a pond with ducks floating and playing around and I was actually a bit of jealous of them. I thought “is this all, is this where I am going to be the rest of my life between 8 and 5 from Monday till Friday?”. So I decided to continue studying to prepare to do something other than selling shoes. I enrolled at the University of Amsterdam to study economical development with a specialization on Latin America. As a part of writing my thesis, I went for 10 months to Surinam and learned about development issues in third world countries. Looking back, I think, that is when I developed my “fever for the tropics“.
In 1993, I got the opportunity to go to Costa Rica, to work on a project in development aid at the National University of Costa Rica. While my work gave me good experience in development, I lost my motivation to stay in that field. I found that I would be more satisfied to work on my own projects and be able to do something to create sustainable progress. As a result, I began to invest my time in various jobs in tourism, including becoming a raft and tour guide. The culture, language, nature and people of Costa Rica touched me deeply and I decided to stay longer.
While I worked as a raft and tour guide I met Fernando, native of Turrialba, Costa Rica and we started to work and live together. When our first daughter was born in 1997, I began to study Spanish and work at different language schools in Costa Rica. In 1998 I had the opportunity to go to Bocas del Toro – Panama to set up a school for a company established in Costa Rica. In the beginning Bocas was not known by international tourists, but little by little, the school began to grow.
I had learned some limited Spanish while being a student in Salamanca in Spain, where I developed a love for the language. Several years later I enrolled in a Spanish school in San Jose but at that time could not afford to continue my studies. As a result, I learned Spanish the hard way, while working at my various jobs. This experience is what gave birth to the dream of Spanish at Locations, making learning Spanish affordable.
Four years later, the birth of a school in Turrialba in Costa Rica fulfilled our dream to combine Spanish classes with river adventures on the Pacuare River. Fernando had been operating a river camp there for many years. His hobby, breeding horses, turned out to be useful when we started to organize our own horse ride trips in the surroundings of Turrialba. Three years later, we opened a third branch, this time in the highland town of Boquete, Panama. This school is also called “Spanish by the River” as the town of Boquete is located near Panama´s best white water. Six years later we started two additional schools, one in Panama City and the other in Puerto Viejo – Costa Rica. The creative skills and abilities of Fernando are on display at our campuses. Coincidentally, the ages of our three daughters match the ages of our first three schools. Our three daughters and our son have been our motivation to continually work hard, improve and enjoy the schools!
Although in recent years the relationship between Fernando and me has changed, we continue to be business partners and to share a common vision regarding Spanish at Locations. New people have joined us that don’t share our history but they are realizing their own dreams within this company. Without them it would definitely not be the same! Because of them, I was able to not only finish my Master Degree in Spanish as a foreign Language, but also to enjoy what I really like to do, teach Spanish. I am fortunate to be active in the beautiful surroundings of our schools and dedicate time to other important things in my life.

"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Tessa de Goede de Ordoñez - Guatemala

Who?

Tessa de Goede de Ordoñez

Where?

Guatemala

Which Initiative?

Tess Unlimited

What?

Surgery of babies and children with a cleft lip and/or cleft palate, in close partnership with local hospitals, health posts and midwives throughout Guatemala
Other projects throughout Guatemala where Tess' team and local+international volunteers work hands-on: milk project, orthodontic care, psychological guidance, speech therapy

Something special?

Parents who have a child with a cleft lip or an clet palate have to try to overcome fear and their shame. Group therapy sessions, between parents of different children, also help them become more stable with their situation. Tess Unlimited provides psychological guidance for both parents and children, through experienced Guatemalan and international volunteers
Campamento Sonrisas is a 10-day summer camp (yearly in November) organized especially for young adults born with a cleft lip and cleft palate. During this week they have different trips and activities to create an environment where they can share experiences, make friendships, develop social skills and have some fun. Each year Tessa and her team are looking for specialized volunteers like psychologists, speech pathologists, drama teachers (workshops) and creative volunteers

And last but not least...a little insight in 'Why'

In 2008, Tessa first discovered the beauty of South America. Not only because of its spectacular nature, but also because of the work she was doing as a volunteer. Tess began by caring for handicapped children in Peru and ended up as an English teacher in Ecuador. Eventually, she lost her heart to Guatemala. Tess perfected her Spanish and started working in a local public school and in the hospital with babies born with cleft lip and palate. This paved the way for other projects and ideas and led to the foundation of Tess Unlimited. Tessa has lived in Guatemala ever since, and she is fortunate to be able to work with a fantastic local/international team, supported by the Tess foundation based in The Netherlands.

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Interviews with emigrants, expats and world nomads around the world: Europe

Interviews with emigrants, expats and world nomads in Europe

Expat and emigration interviews: the story of Fenna Farenhorst who emigrated from the Netherlands to Denmark

Motivation emigrating abroad and experiences going abroad
How are your social interactions in Denmark?
What are the challenges you experienced while moving to Denmark?
How are the practical things arranged in Denmark?
What is useful for others to consider when emigrating?
Communication in and outside Denmark

Motivation emigrating abroad and experiences going abroad

Who is Fenna?

Fenna left the Netherlands, planned to go to Australia and ended in Denmark. Her story is about how she was able to make new friends and to find beauty (of the winter) in Denmark.

What do people need to know about you to understand your emigration story?

I have travelled a lot and I really wanted to live abroad for a longer period of time.

Was there a specific moment or event that inspired you to emigrate?

My partner and I wanted to live abroad for a few more years. This was easily possible through his job, as he works for the university. In 2020, he was almost done with his PhD. We had set our sights on Sydney. We got married and applied for a visa. But covid threw a spanner in the works and eventually our lives came to a standstill for 2.5 years. Australia was very strict and information was scarce. After a few years, we decided to adjust our plan. We looked again at the possibilities and decided to look closer, in Europe. And that became Copenhagen! We moved in February 2022.

How did you prepare for your emigration to Denmark?

I didn't prepare much. We went to see Copenhagen together and 3 months later we were living there. It was more about a feeling: can I see myself living here? What does life look like then? The biggest job was deciding what we would and would not take with us. We decided not to take any furniture with us and start again, which was lovely.

What does your life look like, what work or activities make you feel like you are really at home in Denmark?

For me, home is not tied to a location. Home is where friends and family are. So new friendships really made Copenhagen my home too. But also the little things: getting to know my way around the city, building routines, like my weekly yoga class. And, of course, finding a job.

How does your daily routine differ from that in your home country?

The difference is subtle. It is similar to the Netherlands, but also not. What I can appreciate about Denmark is a very good work-life balance and living with the seasons. In addition, the city invites you to exercise and sport more. I can often be found in the city's harbour baths (yes, it really is so clean that you can swim here). I love the sauna and winter baths. Despite never having been a fan of winter, I am starting to appreciate even that. The darkness and cold invite introspection and rest. Then, in summer, to be outside again for a long time, enjoying good food and the sunshine.

Do you already have an idea about the future?

No, we'll see for ourselves.

How are your social interactions in Denmark?

What was your first encounter with a local?

I don't dare to tell you. Probably in the supermarket. Boring huh?

How did that go?

They speak very good English here, so it's easy to communicate with people here.

Do you have any tips for meeting people?

Find out what the most widely used social media platform is in the country where you live. For Denmark, it is Facebook. Or join a sports club. Join different activities and try something new. Make sure you don't only join activities for expats.

What is the best or most inspiring thing about your emigration?

The realisation that when I move away from my familiar surroundings, I am able to build a new life.

Have you adopted local customs?

Winter baths, not scheduling meetings after 4pm, thinking in weekly numbers.

How do locals react to the fact that you now live and work here?

Mixed. People often say they need a lot of expats. On the other hand many Danes very closed and it is difficult to build a good friendship with them.

What is your favourite local tradition/ holiday?

Every holiday here has its own Danish pastry. Therefore, I wouldn't be able to choose. Currently, I am looking forward to the Fastelavn-boller, the pastry for carnival. It starts early and people queue for hours for it.

Are there any customs in social interaction that you found difficult to understand or that you had to had to get used to?

Danes do not like confrontation and are thus much less direct than the Dutch.

How does friendship here differ from how it is perceived in your home country?

Friends are friends. I do think that the friends here, who are also from another country, understand much better what it is like to emigrate and what emotions come with it. How beautiful it is, but that it is also difficult. How you change because of your new environment and living between cultures.

What are the challenges you experienced while moving to Denmark?

Have there been times when you doubted your choice/emigration, or what disappointed you?

Of course. The first six months are tough. Building deeper friendships takes time. But also important moments of friends and family you can't attend. That can still still tricky.

In retrospect, what would you have liked to know about Denmark beforehand?

I would have liked to know more about the customs and habits and the attitude towards foreigners. But I would also have liked to know more about practical matters. For example, that here you have to unemployment insurance here. I only found out after a year that this existed.

What would you do differently next time and what would you like others with the same idea to with the same idea?

It's good the way it turned out. Next time I will be more conscious about the fact that things go wrong because you don't know the system. Be okay with that and worry less about worry about it.

What was the biggest culture shock?

A culture shock is impossible, in my opinion, when you move from the Netherlands to Denmark. But what struck me the most is how good people have it here. In the Netherlands we already have it good, but here the standard is really very high. People are used to being able to fall back on the government when things get tough. Why worry or work extra hard? No need to.

What skill did you never think you would need but have developed?

Not converting to euros when I order a wine or a beer. That made my life much better.

How do you cope with homesickness?

I don't live far away and I can go to the Netherlands for work a few times a year. That makes it easier. But I miss most the people I've been close to for so long.

Are there things you appreciate more about your homeland now that you are here?

Yes, it sounds crazy but the supermarket. It's 15 years behind here. I miss the extensive selection, especially meat substitutes.

How are the practical things arranged in Denmark?

How do you deal with bureaucracy in your new country?

It's not too bad here.

How did you find a suitable place to live?

Yes, we have a nice little flat in Copenhagen in a quiet neighbourhood. We are right in the city centre but overlook a nice park and we are surrounded by lots of nature. It suits.

Was it difficult? What are the biggest cost differences between this country and your home country?

Rent and purchase prices are high, eating out is expensive, having a drink on the terrace is expensive. I let it go, but as Dutch people we were inclined in the beginning to compare everything with the prices we knew. Meanwhile, we no longer do that. We enjoy it.

What did you learn about insurance, taxes and other financial obligations in the abroad?

Many things are similar like household insurance, travel insurance, etc. Furthermore, it is important to take out unemployment insurance, called a-checkout. You should be a member of this for at least a year. If you are then fired, you will get your wages for up to 2 years paid.

Have you used local healthcare (GP, specialist, dentist, etc.) and what do you notice?

The healthcare system works well. You don't have health insurance here. It is free. Through your work you are sometimes additionally insured for e.g. physiotherapy, dieticians etc. The dentist is slightly more expensive.

What is similar or totally different from the Dutch healthcare system?

The principle is similar. I did find it difficult to find a good GP. Because here too, as in the Netherlands, healthcare is under pressure. I have sometimes that the GP could not speak English well, which made it difficult to explain my problem. But it's just little things that you always get out of.

What is useful for others to consider when emigrating?

Are there any specific issues or tips that would be useful for other people who will be living or working in Denmark?

The very best thing about living in Copenhagen is that I feel very safe. If I have a party that goes on until late, I can go home alone as a woman. I don't fuss and
don't feel I have to pay extra attention. A big difference from how I felt in Netherlands, when I walked alone on the streets after 12 o'clock.

Why did you choose this work/company and what is the bureaucracy like in the country where you are?

I work as an editor and project manager at a digital publishing company. I work for the Dutch market and focus on eBooks, audiobooks and I have set up a Print on Demand paperback programme. Lovely to be able to work with books and have a link to Netherlands.

What would you like to highlight about your work?

It's international and I have nice colleagues. I'm in the office with as many as 10 different nationalities. The office is in the heart of Copenhagen and every lunch I look out over the city.

How is your life regarding meaningful activities in Denmark?

At the beginning, I benefited a lot from an initiative on Facebook: Girl Gone International. They are active in many cities, a tip for other women!

Have you developed any new hobbies or interests since living in Denmark?

Yes. I have become addicted to hot yoga, perfect for the winter months. I am in two book clubs, which has made me read even more and made many friends. This
winter I'm taking a wheel throwing course. So I will soon have a whole collection of not perfectly straight coffee cups. I have learnt a lot of new things over the past few years.

What do you do in your free time to feel connected to yourself and your environment?

Going outside a lot for a walk.Having a nice bite to eat with my partner or friends.I can also enjoy wandering around Copenhagen alone after work.

What local traditions or rituals in Denmark have inspired or touched you?

Danish life makes it very easy to keep balance. Full-time is 37.5 hours. Many colleagues with children go home at 3 and the rest usually at 4. The city is so laid out that most people cycle or take public transport.

Communication in and outside Denmark

Have you learnt the local language and if so, how?

Yes, if you move to Denmark you have 5 years to complete 5 modules for free. This takes you up to B2 level. I have now completed 4 modules.

How do you stay in touch with home?

I call family and friends regularly. I am briefly in the Netherlands every 3-4 months.

Expat and emigration interviews: the story of Sarah (The Philippines) who went to the Netherlands

What were your motivation and experiences emigrating to the Netherlands?
How is the dutch culture and the interactions with people in the Netherlands?
What are the challenges during the emigration to the Netherlands?
How are the practicalities in the country of emigration?
What are your activities in the Netherlands?
How is the communication in the Netherlands?

What were your motivation and experiences emigrating to the Netherlands?

Who is Sarah?

Meet Sarah. Sarah is an expat from the Philippines, who lives in the Netherlands. She enjoys the Dutch culture and speaks Dutch fluently, even though the blog is in English. Every day she's busy with the Dutch language. Read more about her emigration story, her life and her work below.

What do people need to know about you to understand your Dutch emigration story?

People need to know that I grew up in Manila, Philippines and now live in the Netherlands. I never thought about moving abroad. The possibilities were slim and I was more concerned with my parents and chasing big dreams.

Was there a specific event that inspired you to emigrate to the Netherlands?

Yes. For my partner and our future together, I decided to take the plunge, leave everything behind and move to the Netherlands. Sometimes love makes you do things you never expected.

How did you prepare for your emigration to the Netherlands?

Before I came to the Netherlands, I already learned the Dutch language in the Philippines, because I had to take a basic integration exam. In addition, I arranged numerous papers to obtain my visa.

In addition to the administrative preparation, I had to mentally prepare myself for the cold weather and the long, dark winter in the Netherlands. It is a big change from the warm Philippines.

What does your life look like, what kind of work or activities make you feel like you are really 'at home' in the Netherlands?

I work at TopTaal and help students register for Dutch courses. It has always been my goal to work in a Dutch-speaking environment, so that I can improve my Dutch daily. In addition, I meet up with friends to practice the language in practice and for fun, which helps me to really feel at home here.

How different is your daily routine in the Netherlands compared to your daily routine in the Philippines?

In the Netherlands, it is more structured and quieter than in the Philippines. It is more hectic there. Here, there is more balance between work and private life, while their "work" was more a means to survive and enjoy life.

Do you already have an idea for the future?

Yes. Next year, I will follow a course that I have wanted to do for a long time. Hopefully I will qualify for it. I will also take my first driving test in February, that is very exciting and we are also getting married in the Philippines.

How is the dutch culture and the interactions with people in the Netherlands?

What was your first encounter with a local resident in the Netherlands?

It was with my partner's grandparents. It was a warm welcome. It went well and they were very nice to me. Even though I didn't speak much Dutch at the time, we could talk and laugh together.

Do you have any tips to meet people in the Netherlands?

They can actively participate in activities that interest them. They can also join a language cafe or a conversation club, because there are also foreign people there.

What is the best or most inspiring thing about your emigration to the Netherlands?

The most inspiring thing is the opportunity to develop myself both personally and professionally. Every day is almost a new experience for me.

What is the funniest or most painful misunderstanding you have experienced because of language or cultural differences?

I think how direct they are here, they say what's on their mind straight away. At first I couldn't handle that, but now I can. I can still be very direct with someone.

Have you adopted local customs in the Netherlands?

Certainly, cycling to go somewhere and also having a sandwich for lunch. I'm used to it now.

How do the locals react to the fact that you now live and work in the Netherlands?

I only hear positive things, so that's really nice to hear. They are often interested in my background and like to hear about my experiences.

What is your favorite local tradition/holiday?

I think it is King's Day because everyone is always happy on the streets. There is also always a big party and everyone dresses up in orange. Super fun!

Are there any customs in social interaction that you found difficult to understand or that you had to get used to?

Yes, the directness. The straightforwardness. It took me a while to feel comfortable with that.

How does friendship differ here from how it is experienced in your home country?

Friendship is definitely different here. In the Netherlands I have one fixed group of friends with whom I do fun things because I don't combine work and private life as friendship like it is here. In the Philippines I have different groups of friends that I got to know through different events in my life, such as from primary school to university and also from work.

What are the challenges during the emigration to the Netherlands?

Were there moments when you doubted your choice/emigration, or what disappointed you?

In the beginning there were moments of setbacks, because I had to do many things at the same time. Eventually I realized that it is a process and that it takes time.

In retrospect, what do you wish you had known about The Netherlands in advance?

Not really anything.

What would you do differently next time and what would you like to pass on to others with the same idea?

No, I did my best so I am satisfied. If I could give advice, it would be to be patient. You don't have to want to understand everything at once and above all be open to new experiences without comparing too much.

What was the biggest culture shock?

How people here can drink a lot of alcohol. They can handle alcohol really well, especially during parties and then they can even ride a bike upright afterwards. I didn't succeed the first time.

What skill did you never think you would need, but did you develop?

Definitely learning a new language. I thought it would be hard, but that turned out not to be true. As long as you have perseverance, you can definitely do it.

How do you deal with homesickness/loneliness?

What do you miss the most? Homesickness is not something I often get, because I feel at home here with my partner, in-laws and friends around me. Of course I miss my family sometimes, but I stay in touch by texting and video calling. What I miss the most is my father's adobo (Filipino food) and how my nephews and niece are growing up.

Are there things you appreciate more about your home country now that you are here?

Since I have been here, I appreciate how busy but lively the Philippines is, with street vendors and spontaneous conversations with neighbors or friends. I also miss the summer weather sometimes.

How are the practicalities in the country of emigration?

How do you deal with the bureaucracy in your new country?

I stay patient and make sure I have everything well prepared.

What was the most difficult rule to understand/follow?

The rules around taxes, e.g. tax returns, were the most confusing. Fortunately, I can always do that together with my partner.

How did you find a suitable place to live?

Yes, I live with my partner. It was not easy for him, but not impossible to find a house. You definitely need a lot of patience, because affordable housing is not easy to find.

Was it difficult?

What are the biggest differences in costs between this country and your home country? I find it difficult to compare, because it is very different. There, almost all of your salary goes to necessities because of the poor ratio between working days and income. Here in the Netherlands, the income is higher, which means it is better balanced with your budget and you can still save.

What did you learn about insurance, taxes and other financial obligations abroad?

I did not have that in the Philippines, but I learned here how important it is to be well insured, especially with the mandatory health insurance.

Have you used local health care (GP, specialist, dentist, etc.) and what do you notice?

Yes, I did. I visited the GP a few times because of my allergy and it took a long time before I could go to the specialist. I usually get ointment or cream for my complaints.

What is similar or completely different from Dutch healthcare?

In the Philippines, medicines or treatments are prescribed more quickly, while here almost everything is solved with paracetamol. It doesn't always work, but I'm not complaining.

What is useful for others to take into account?

It is useful if you are already well informed about your obligations here, such as insurance.

Are there specific issues or tips around 'safety' or 'health' that are useful for other people who are going to live or work at your destination for a longer period of time?

Cycling is the main means of transport here, so it is useful and practical if you can already cycle well. It can be chaotic, especially in the big cities, so pay close attention and check your surroundings.

What are your activities in the Netherlands?

Have you developed any new hobbies or interests since living in the Netherlands?

Yes, I have started taking exercise classes, such as Yoga and Pilates. It is really relaxing and helps me stay active. Are there any projects or activities that you are involved in that give you a sense of fulfillment?

What do you do in your free time to feel connected to yourself and your surroundings?

In my free time I try to go for walks or hikes because it is relaxing. I also enjoy spending time with my partner and friends.

What local traditions or rituals have inspired or touched you?

The fair is a tradition that has inspired me in terms of coziness and being together. The fun rides, food stalls and the friendliness of the people. It brings everyone together to enjoy a few days of fun.

How do you find the balance between work, relaxation and enjoying your new surroundings?

During my day off it is just purely being at home and doing household chores and time for myself. I don't think about my work and I don't get disturbed which is very nice.

How is the communication in the Netherlands?

Have you learned the local language and if so, how?

In our area people speak West Frisian. I do know a few words and sentences that I have heard from my parents-in-law and friends. I hear those compounds when they talk, but I don't dare to use them myself yet.

How do you stay in touch with home?

Via Facebook Messenger, we always talk there. Sending messages to each other and occasionally video calling.

What are some communication problems that you have encountered?

Nothing per se, but maybe it is the time difference. In the winter it is 7 o'clock and in the summer it is 6 o'clock.

What have you learned?

What I have learned is that it is quite difficult to be far away from my parents because they are getting older now. That is why I really make time for them to maintain communication.

Expat and emigration interviews: the story of Co (Netherlands) who went to Italy

Meet Co. Co is an expat from the Netherlands, who lives in Italy. He loves everything Italy has to offer. He is retired and learns to adapt to Italian culture every day. Read more about his emigration story and his life below.

How are your experiences emigrating to Italy?
How is the culture in Italy and interactions with the Italians?
What are the challenges while emigrating to Italy?
What are the practicalities in Italy?

How are your experiences emigrating to Italy?

What do people need to know about you to understand your emigration story? How did you prepare?

After a period of 10 years of travelling, during which I visited many warmer countries, I thought why not live in a more pleasant climate than the cold frog climate of the Netherlands? Maybe in Italy… a few years ago - during a sabbatical - I lived in Naples for eight months and worked there unpaid as a cook in a taverna. During that time I was appreciated for my dedication and beautiful dishes, but I did not reach the pace of the average cuoco so my adventure ended in Napoli - a city and culture that I had come to love.

The city of Napoli and the Neapolitan can - in my opinion - be compared to Rotterdam and the average Rotterdammer. It is a raw port city. The Neapolitan wears his heart on his sleeve and, like the people of Rotterdam, is straight to the point - even more so than the average Italian. Should I move to Naples, is a question I flirted with for a long time ... until friends hardly believed me. In 2019, I seriously started investigating a possible immigration to Southern Italy. I went there, first with my car and looked around in the villages in the foothills of the great Apennine mountains just outside Naples. I returned from that voyage of discovery disillusioned. The region was poor and often desolate.

In my tiny house on the edge of Rotterdam, I - a city boy par excellence - had discovered that I found living 'outside' attractive. so moving to my favourite city, Napoli itself, was not an option. I have time to myself. After all, my working life is over. Well before my sixtieth birthday, I decided to live more minimalistically. Work was therefore not a sacred must. On the way back from Campania - including Naples - I drove along the Adriatic coast and stayed with friends from Rotterdam who had started a campeggio in 'le Marche' a few years ago. When I drove into the region, had lunch in Cornaldo - a beautifully preserved Borgho town - walled with sandstone - a feeling of peace, of home came over me. Although this does sound very new-age-like.

Would I be able to settle here, was the big question ... When after about ten days I had explored the wide area around Corinaldo and visited several houses, my choice for the region was clear. In the years that followed, with the help of Dutch people who live in le Marche, I thoroughly investigated the possibilities of living in that region for the majority of 'the' year. An intensive process of looking for houses to buy followed. Unfortunately interrupted by the covid epidemic, I have been there more often. 'the duration and my age divided by the time of purchasing and renovating a house to buy' made me ultimately opt for a rental house. I found that house through a tip from my Rotterdam friend from Castelleone di Suasa - just outside the village. It is a lovely new house, but an exact copy of the old family farm that used to be there… I quickly got to know the locals and several expats who also live there - often for decades. Because I had taken Italian language courses before, I picked up the language fairly quickly. Although full mastery is not easy to acquire…

What kind of work or activities make you feel like you are really 'at home' in Italy?

The surroundings are inspiring, views of the Apennines but also of the sea, it is the foothills of the mountains that make the landscape lovely. However, I must not leave unmentioned that it is also an agricultural region. All kinds of things are grown. The local wine, the verdicchio and the olive oil are the products of this. You will also find many golden fields of sunflowers ...

How does your daily routine differ from that in your home country?

I spend my days with long walks, painting abstract paintings for which the ideas nevertheless bubble up in the landscape of Le Marche ... Because the driving distance from the Netherlands is 'doable' in two days, I regularly have guests over. I also visit - often with guests - the beautiful towns, markets and restaurants. In the Netherlands I had a busy social life; with many activities. In Le Marche I take it a bit easier. Lots of painting and long walks - that's true.

Do you already have an idea about the future?

In the near future I am thinking about whether I will stay in this village, or whether I might want to live closer to a big city. I am not the youngest anymore and would like to live in the immediate vicinity of amenities.

How is the culture in Italy and interactions with the Italians?

Do you have any tips to meet people?

My advice would be to take some education in the language of the country of the future beforehand. You will come into contact with the local population so much more easily. Learn a lot of words, then you will associate more easily, in my experience. Duolingo or an AI teacher online will probably also help.

What is the best or most inspiring thing about your emigration?

The peace and quiet, the nature and of course the Italians, who are always willing to help you on your way - literally and figuratively. The fabulous Italian cuisine is also not to be sneezed at.

What is the funniest or most painful misunderstanding you have experienced due to language or cultural differences?

The fact that there was a pig in a shed, as big as the pig in the yard of my house, made me unable to sleep because of annoyance. As a child of about 10 years old, I saw a pig being slaughtered - and heard it scream - and compassion for the species was the result. After my insistence, the pig was moved to a larger, better home. Although it's future should not be pictured as rosy.

Have you adopted local customs?

Nowadays, I always eat my salad after the secondo - the second course. Italians often have an antipasto - a starter - then often a pasta follows - called primo - after which the secondo follows. That is often meat or fish with vegetables - contorni - and when they finish the meal comes the dessert - dolce - and then an espresso. I can hardly handle a meal like that; far too much.

Are there any customs in social interaction that you found difficult to understand or that you had to get used to?

A custom that also appeals to the imagination is the bidet, an Italian cannot and does not want a house without a bagno with a bidet. Now I was already used to using a water pistol; learned from my travels in Southeast Asia, but the mandatory presence of bidets, I found amusing. The fact that you do not drink cappuccino after 12 o’clock, is another custom that has not gone unnoticed. Italian waiters eventually serve it, but not wholeheartedly.

How do the locals react to the fact that you now live and work here?

Italians in ‘my’ village are curious and in the beginning my move was ‘talk of the town’. I was recognized and linked to the yellow house in which I live - casa Gialla.

What is your favorite local tradition/holiday?

The markets that every village or town has, have a great attraction for me. I also can't ignore the annual onion festival - festa di cipolle.

How does friendship here differ from how it is experienced in your home country?

Friendship with Italians often takes place in the public space. You don't quickly go to an Italian's home. You meet each other in a bar or a restaurant ...

What are the challenges while emigrating to Italy?

Have there been times when you doubted your choice/emigration, or what disappointed you?

No, I don't regret a single day, but my choices are also based on a thorough orientation.

In retrospect, what would you have liked to know about Italy in advance?

I wouldn't know it right away. Although, perhaps naively, the middle of Italy certainly has winters in which snow and slippery conditions are not excluded.

What would you do differently next time and what would you like to pass on to others with the same idea?

Nothing, what I advise is to make a thorough orientation of the neighborhood, the population, the role of religion and cultural customs.

What was the biggest culture shock?

That a new car costs a lot less in Italy. The Netherlands uses bpm and that tax is particularly high.

What skill did you never think you would need, but have developed anyway?

Being patient was not my strong suit at first. I had been doing much better at that for a while. Now being and staying calm is second nature. In Italy this is a welcome quality - not to say very important. Italy is certainly not very effective and efficient like the Netherlands. The bureaucracy is often a reason to grind your teeth and know that getting angry is pointless.

How do you deal with homesickness/loneliness? What do you miss the most?

I have no problem with that.

Are there things you appreciate more about your home country now that you are here?

That the Netherlands is clean, very well organised and hardly corrupt; I like that and I no longer take it for granted. Also that a lot is well organised in the Netherlands. My adage 'travelling is the best antidote to ignorance' also applies here.

How do you deal with the bureaucracy in your new country?

As a good Buddhist should - ahem; it comes and goes like water - offer no resistance …

What was the most difficult rule to understand/follow?

The driving behavior of the average Italian is cringe-inducing. They drive as if their life depends on it. This is not a rule, even though you would almost believe it. In the first three months, two people from the village were killed by reckless driving. No easy task, I would say. Learning to interpret the mood of my conversation partner is a point that requires attention. The gesticulation that is accompanied by firm language is sometimes hard for me to handle. The emotions naturally support the story, but when I think I should call the police, they suddenly fall into each other's arms and normal life resumes.

What are the biggest differences in costs between this country and your home country?

The average cost of living is lower here, and much more so in the south of Italy.

What are the practicalities in Italy?

What have you learned about insurance, taxes and other financial obligations abroad?

Not much, except that a business owner is obliged to give you a receipt, and that his accounting system passes on the invoiced and received amounts to the local tax office …

Have you used local health care (GP, specialist, dentist etc.) and what did you notice?

The public health care system is in a precarious condition - it is like going back 50 years in time.

What is similar or completely different to the Dutch health care system?

No GP available, poorly accessible primary care, standard secondary care is often inaccessible.

What is useful for others to take into account?

Are there any specific issues or tips around 'safety' or 'health' that would be useful for other people who are going to live or work in your destination for a longer period of time? I couldn't say (yet)...

What would you like to put in the spotlight about your work?

Nothing.

What are some communication issues you have encountered?

Communicating with friends and family is hardly a problem. There are many options and with video connections virtual meetings are at least pleasant …

Expat and emigration interviews: Jaap's emigration to France/Basel: Nature, Butter and Cultural Differences

Meet Jaap. Jaap decided to join his partner and look for a job in Basel. He succeeded and soon left. Since 2022, he has been enjoying the relaxed life in the countryside in France and the working life in Basel. Read more about his story here.

What motivated you to move to France/Basel and how has your experience been?
What is French/Swiss culture like, and how do people interact socially?
What are the challenges of and how did you grow during your emigration to France/Basel?
What are some practical tips for moving to France/Basel?
How do you make the most out of your expat life in France/Basel?

What motivated you to move to France/Basel and how has your experience been?

Was there a specific moment or event that inspired you to emigrate?

While looking for a job that would suit me better than the one I had at the time, I met my current partner. She had just found a job in Basel, Switzerland. A few months later I sent out some open applications. More to feel the water a bit, than that it was really serious. But then I got some offers, and I also easily found a house.

How did you prepare?

I mainly sorted out my belongings and gave away a lot.

What does your life look like, what kind of work or activities make you feel like you are really ‘at home’ in France/Basel?

I work four days a week in Basel. In the weekend I often do crafts/building in the shed next to our house in a village in France, right next to Basel. Or I go to a dance festival in France, which feels much closer now. My routine, stuff and work are here, that makes this my home. As much as I like life in the countryside, where I feel very much at home, I don’t feel at home in Switzerland.

How is your daily routine different from the Netherlands?

My daily routine is not really different from how it is in the Netherlands. I go to work, work, and come back, or do something in the city. In the weekend I mess around a bit. The biggest difference is that I don’t have any friends here, so I don’t do anything with friends. That was different in the Netherlands.

Do you already have an idea about the future?

In about a year I don’t see myself living near Switzerland anymore, probably back in the Netherlands.

What is French/Swiss culture like, and how do people interact socially?

What was your first encounter with a local? How did it go? Do you have any tips for meeting people?

They are just people like you and me. I can’t remember my first encounter. I probably greeted that person in German/French. Switzerland is a club country. People are in a club, and do a lot for/with that club, and a lot of their social life is there. As a result, a lot seems to happen behind closed doors. If you don’t know it exists, you probably won’t come across it. On courses (dance/sports) people don’t really talk to each other, and after class they go straight home.

What is the best or most inspiring thing about your emigration?

‘Life in the French countryside.’ Taking time to eat (in my experience in the Netherlands people eat more from a pragmatic perspective, here that is the activity of the evening), more nature around me. Although that is probably largely because I grew up in a city in the Randstad, and now live in the countryside.

What is the funniest or most painful misunderstanding you have experienced due to language or cultural differences?

I always thought the stereotype that the Dutch are direct was exaggerated. I have since discovered that I am a very direct Dutch person. The Swiss are generally very discreet and careful. Especially in the beginning, I unintentionally stepped on toes a few times. I now pack everything like flowers.

Have you adopted any local customs?

I use a lot more butter.

How do locals react to the fact that you now live and work here?

Basel is a very international city, no one is surprised by another foreigner like me. This also applies to the village in France where I live. So it is not that special.

Are there things that you have difficulty with in social interactions?

See what I described above about directness and discreetness. In the forest between the village and Basel, many Swiss people walk their dogs. They do not greet you, sometimes look at you intrigued, without showing that they are looking at another person. In the Netherlands, I am used to everyone switching to English as soon as there is even a hint that someone in the group does not understand Dutch. That is absolutely not the case here. If I ask to switch to English or High German, it is often quickly forgotten.

How is friendship here different from in your home country?

I don't have any friends here, so that is quite a difference.

Did you learn the local language and if so, how?

My German was rusty but is back now. I am now better at understanding Swiss German, and my French is improving a little bit.

How do you stay in touch with home?

I call, app and visit.

What are the challenges of and how did you grow during your emigration to France/Basel?

Were there moments when you doubted your choice/emigration, or what disappointed you?

I’m still glad I made the choice. I didn’t expect the level of cultural difference, and that makes things very difficult for me sometimes.

In retrospect, what do you wish you had known about the place you’re living in?

I don’t think there are things I could have prepared for if I had known.

What would you do differently next time and what would you advise others with the same idea?

Speaking the local language and (!!) dialect is a must. My German is fluent, but my Swiss German is very mediocre. So I miss out on a lot.

What skill did you never think you needed, but have you developed?

I pay even more attention to traffic when I’m cycling.

What do you miss most?

Friends, I go back regularly (every ~2-3 months) for a weekend.

Are there things you appreciate more about your home country now that you’re here?

Down-to-earth practicality, directness, digital bureaucracy, trains that actually run.

What are some practical tips for moving to France/Basel?

How do you deal with the red tape in your new country?

I open a bottle of wine and sit down for it. The bureaucracy in Switzerland and especially France is enormous, and a lot of it is on paper.

How did you find a suitable place to live? Was it difficult?

I was able to end up in the group home where my partner also lives, which was coincidental and perfect.

What are the biggest differences in costs between this country and your home country?

Switzerland is about twice as expensive as in the Netherlands, but my salary is adjusted accordingly, so my purchasing power is about the same.

What have you learned about insurance, taxes and other financial obligations abroad?

These kinds of things are very well arranged in the Netherlands.

Have you used the local health care (GP, specialist, dentist etc.) and what do you notice?

My GP is very distant/professional, other than that I have no experience.

How do you make the most out of your expat life in France/Basel?

Are there any projects or activities you are involved in that give you a sense of fulfillment?

I am currently organizing a dance festival for the second time (for about 120 people). (Although that is not specific to where I live now)

What do you do in your free time to feel connected to yourself and your surroundings?

I regularly enjoy the nature around my house during walks.

How do you find the balance between work, relaxation and enjoying your new surroundings?

I now work 4 days a week, in the Netherlands it was 5. This works very well.

"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Miriam Levie - Spain & Italy

Who?

Miriam Levie

Where?

Málaga, Spain

Which initiative?

TEFL-in-Spain, TEFL-in-Italy

What?

TEFL courses on location and online TEFL courses, Teacher Development & Spanish or Italian courses

Something special?

Trinity College London Certificate courses: The Trinity College London Certificate TESOL (Teaching English to Speakers of Other Languages) is the highest TEFL qualification (same as the CELTA), validated by Trinity College London and recognised by the British Council and employers worldwide.
Teacher development courses: specialist course modules to improve your teaching skills and to be able to teach to various target groups
Career services: There is a big demand for English teachers in Spain and Italy. Compared to other European countries, the level of English is quite low, so Spanish and Italian people need to improve their English in order to find a good job in Italy or abroad.

And last but not least...a little insight in 'Why'

Miriam, nowadays Director and Course Tutor, gained her first experience in teaching English as a foreign language when she came to Spain in January 2005 to study Spanish. Spanish people have a generally low level of foreign language skills and Miriam found out there was a big demand for English teachers. First, she started giving one-on-one classes and later Miriam was offered a job at a language school, followed by a position as an in-company English teacher. She enjoyed it so much that she realised teaching foreign languages was her true vocation. Miriam understands what students are going through, because she knows exactly what it is like to learn another language. After several years of teaching Miriam wanted to further develop her skills related to the theory and practice in the area of teaching English and decided to study again. She received a Master’s Degree in Applied Linguistics at the Universidad Autónoma of Madrid. In this programme she specialised in Second Language Acquisition and Teacher Training and decided to set up a high quality TEFL school with other experienced teacher trainers.

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Interviews with emigrants, expats and world nomads around the world: Northern America

Interviews with emigrants, expats and world nomads in Northern America

Joe's emigration from the UK to the US - chasing the American Dream

Meet Joe. Joe grew up in small town in the United Kingdom, but decided to move to the US for his studies. In 2014 he applied for a scholarship, got it and said goodbye to his family and friends to go on a 6-year adventure in the US. After four years of studying and two years of working he decided to leave. Read more about his story below!

What motivated you to move to the United States of America and how was your experience?
How was university life in the USA?
What is American culture like, and how do people interact socially in the United States?
What are the challenges of emigrating to the USA as a British person?
What are the practicalities of living in the USA?
How did you experience your expat life in the USA?

What motivated you to move to the United States of America and how was your experience?

What should people know about you to understand your emigration story?

I moved to the US at 18 to pursue a college education as I received a merit-based scholarship. I studied for four years, graduating with a degree in chemistry, and then made use of the STEM optional practical training (OPT) program to work for two years.

Was there a specific moment or event that inspired you to emigrate?

Many, but mainly growing up watching the big bang theory and meeting an american girl on a holiday in France when I was 15!

How did you prepare?

A few vaccines that I had to get that were required in the US but not in the EU. A physical check-up. Getting all my dental/optical health taken care of as I wasn’t sure how much it would cost in the US.

What did your life look like, what kind of work/activities made you feel like you were really at home in the USA?

Hiking and spending time in nature! The US is vast and the sky feels huge compared to anywhere else I’ve been in the world - reaching a viewpoint on the Appalachian trail and seeing lush green trees as far as the eye can see. Camping trips to Maine and the Adirondacks, the myriad colours of leaves in a New England fall. Halloween pumpkin picking and carving, drinking apple cider, eating pumpkin pie. Going to a baseball game or an ice hockey game. Fourth of July fireworks! Watching the NFL on Thanksgiving.

Did you have an idea about the future?

At the time of leaving, I did not have much of an idea of the future due to the pandemic. I had a plan for moving back to the UK, and made sure to tie up loose ends before leaving the US. I knew that I eventually wanted to travel to Japan and New Zealand/Australia.

Why did you return to the UK?

Again, many reasons. It was difficult during the pandemic being isolated from my family in the UK. I also wanted to travel internationally outside of the USA and make use of UK-based working holiday programmes, which was at odds with needing to maintain my visa status and employer-provided health insurance in the US.

How was university life in the USA?

Did you get funding to go to university in the US?

⁠I was lucky to be able to go through the Sutton Trust US programme, a programme aimed at educating UK state school students on college opportunities available in the US as there is a lot of financial aid on offer for international students. The programme guided me through the daunting US college admission process. There are different forms of funding in terms of scholarships, merit-based financial aid, and need-based financial aid (what I got, I was admitted to the university but then received grant money from the university to attend, otherwise I wasn’t able to afford it). Advice would be to look at highly ranked US universities, as they will typically have more money and financial aid available to give to international students.

What kind of university did you attend?

I attended a liberal arts college, smaller than traditional universities, and focusing on a more holistic and well-rounded education rather than a single area. (I had to take classes in different subject areas - social sciences, natural sciences, arts, physical education, etc.) in order to graduate. I didn’t declare a major (chemistry) until the end of my second year, and was able to take non-chemistry classes throughout my time.

What did the academic year look like?

⁠Academic year followed a two semester system, fall and spring. Assessments were done throughout the semester, rather than a single exam at the end. I was fortunate to attend a liberal arts college as they are solely undergraduate institutions and have small student bodies (2000 student). I was able to do research in the chemistry department and used high level instrumentation that would be difficult to find/use even at graduate level. Classes were also much smaller and much more student/professor interaction.

Any advice?

Thanksgiving is a really fun holiday, I found my American friends were happy to invite me into their homes when I told them I’d be alone on the holidays.

What is American culture like, and how do people interact socially in the United States?

How did you make friends? Do you have any tips for meeting people?

I was fortunate to meet friends through college and then work. Americans are generally very friendly and happy to help or to have a conversation. Many of my friends invited me into their homes during public holidays like Christmas and Thanksgiving. My tips for meeting people would be to pursue groups based on hobbies and shared interests, and to be open to new opportunities and putting yourself outside of your comfort zone.

How did locals react to you living and working in the US?

I found that people are always happy to chat to people from Europe and hear about where they are from! But for the most part living and working here is the same as anywhere else!

What is your favorite local tradition/holiday?

Thanksgiving, the desserts/pies are amazing and the lack of focus on gifts (like christmas) makes it a nice holiday focused on spending time with family and friends.

Are there things you struggled with in social interactions?

The directness and extroverted nature of conversations is sometimes overwhelming. Another thing was not knowing if people are endearing or genuinely interested in friendship versus stereotypical friendly American. This sometimes made it difficult to foster genuine friendships.

How did you stay in touch with home?

Facetime and Whatsapp, sending family pictures, Polarsteps

Have you learned anything useful about communication with home?

It highlighted indirect patterns of speech that are used in the UK, which was useful when I returned to work after my time in the US.

What was one of the best experiences?

It starts with losing my expensive glasses in the ocean, not the best experience... But then the family I was staying with talked with their neighbours/local community and they all chipped in money for me to get a replacement pair. I'd never experienced something like that before and it showed the kindness of many Americans, even towards a relative stranger.

What are the challenges of emigrating to the USA as a British person?

What were your biggest disappointments after emigrating?

The lack of walkability disappointed me, a car is very much a necessity outside of few major cities. In the UK distances are much smaller and public transportation is easy, or you can even go somewhere by bike or walk. In the US this can be very different.

Health insurance being tied to employment was another things that caused me stress and frustration at times as well, since without employment, well....

In retrospect, what do you wish you had known about the USA?

There is no legally mandated minimum vacation time. The work culture is tough and very individualistic.

What would you do differently next time and what would you tell others with the same idea?

Unless I was living in a city like New York or Boston, I would buy a car, as it gives a lot of freedom and independence. Fuel is cheap compared to Europe and distances are vast.

What was the biggest culture shock?

There is a large level of income inequality and there’s high levels of homelessness and addiction.

What did you miss most from the UK?

Having a supply of wine gums and Haribo! But I also missed British sports culture and the quality of food/vegetables in my home country. A lot of food in the US has high fructose corn syrup and/or added sugar.

Were there things you appreciated more about the UK while you were in the US?

Walkability, legally mandated time off, fresh food and cheap fruit/vegetables, mobile banking and bank transfers, most paperwork has been digitised in the UK and can be easily handled using gov.uk.

What are the practicalities of living in the USA?

What was the most difficult rule to understand in the US?

States with different laws regarding tax, driving, alcohol, gambling etc. It can be quite confusing!

How did you find a suitable place to live? Was it difficult?

I found a room to rent through Craigslist. It was straight forward although I did need a reference.

What was the working culture like? Was it different from the UK?

I worked for a small family run company. Quite a stressful environment and a high workload. Lots of interaction with the boss, some micromanagement, but it also allowed me flexibility that you don’t necessarily at a larger corporate company (I.e. taking holiday in advance as I needed to return to the UK to renew my visa). All decisions had to be approved by the boss. There was no progression/pathway for promotion, which was also one of my reasons for leaving - I came in to a high level position compared to others in a similar age/degree background, but more senior positions were filled by long-term staff and so promotion was only realistic if someone retired. No mandated holiday time, I earned 10 days of holiday time after 1 year at the company, increasing by 5 days each year at the company. It was a good stepping stone, but quite a toxic work environment and I missed the employer protections offered in Europe. I would consider returning to the US and working at a more senior level in a more competitive industry and location, as benefits are generally better to maintain employees (I.e more days off given by the company per year than in the UK).

What were the biggest differences in costs between the USA and the UK?

Fuel is significantly cheaper than Europe/UK, second hand cars are more expensive, rent and cost of living is more expensive in the US.

What have you learned about insurance, taxes and other financial obligations in the US?

Having to manually fill in a tax return and use tax company software. Generally tax returns are done automatically in the UK.

Did you use local healthcare in the US and what did you notice? Was it similar or completely different?

I had a few experiences with the US healthcare system, but was able to get seen very quickly whenever problems arose. I had laser repair work done on my eyes, something that would have taken 6 months for an appointment in the UK, whereas I was seen within a week in the US. I had orthodontic work done in my first year in the US. It was expensive as it was only partially covered by my insurance, but I had been wearing braces for 5 years on the NHS with very slow/no improvement. My orthodontist in the US gave me a 1 year plan for completing my orthodontic work and was very proactive and communicated clearly. I have zero regrets and still enjoy my smile 10 years on!

But.. next to this, the healthcare system was very confusing. I was afraid of getting sick and having to go to doctors when I was a student as I wasn't sure how much it would cost me. I knew a case of someone who didn't call an ambulance for their paralytic friend because they didn't know if they could afford it (>1000 dollars). I would definitely recommend sorting out good health insurance before you go.

Are there specific issues or tips around 'safety' or 'health' that are useful for other people who are going to live or work in the US for a longer period of time to know?

Be aware of food quality, additives, and portion sizes - it is really easy to put on weight. And, unfortunately, gun safety is another thing to be aware of.

Other things you want to share about your emigration?

I had to fly back to the UK to renew my visa, I couldn’t get it done in the US. So make sure you check how to do it, and perhaps you can combine it with a nice visit to your family and friends!

How did you experience your expat life in the USA?

Did you develop any new hobbies or interests while living in the USA?

I pursued hiking, camping, climbing, and played many board games!

Were there any projects or activities you were involved in that gave you a sense of fulfillment?

I volunteered at my local independent movie theatre and also at Habitat for Humanity (US organisation aimed at building affordable housing)

How did you balance work, relaxation and enjoying your new surroundings?

The US work culture and lack of employment rights means maintaining a work life balance is notoriously difficult, but it is important to schedule days off and plan solo outings or meet up with friends.

Overall I had a great time in the US, and despite certain things, I still miss the country and my friends. As I said, maybe I'll go back some day, but first - Australia :).

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Interviews with emigrants, expats and world nomads around the world: South America

Interviews with emigrants, expats and world nomads in South America

Expat and emigration interviews: the story of Jan who worked for Foreign Affairs and reopened a consulate in Brazil

Meet Jan, he worked for Foreign Affairs and reopened a consulate in Brazil. Read more about his experiences below.

Who is Jan?
What do people need to know about you to understand your story?
How were your cultural and social interactions in Brazil?
What are the challenges in Brazil?
How are the practical rules & what are the issues in Brazil?
How is it to communicate in Brazil?

Who is Jan?

Jan worked for the Belgian Ministry of Foreign Affairs and reopened a consulate in Brazil.
Read more about his experiences below through the interview below.

What do people need to know about you to understand your story?

I was sent out by my employer, Foreign Affairs to reopen a Consulate in Brazik.
I did not really prepare.

What is your life like, what kind of work or activities make you feel you are really “at home” in Brazil?

Basic knowledge of the language is an indispensable requirement to feel at home in Brazil, as few people speak another language (e.g. English).

How does your daily routine differ from that in your home country?

Brazilians take their time for everything. They often arrive late for appointments or don't show up at all. You can never get straight to the point but first answer questions about family and health. Everything is very complicated and agonizingly slow with a leaden bureaucracy.

How were your cultural and social interactions in Brazil?

What was your first encounter with a local?

Brazilians are very warm and friendly people, however, one should not take them too seriously. They are spontaneous and there is curiosity about where you are from, what you are doing in the country, etc.

Do you have any tips for meeting people?

Very easy. Learn a few words of Portuguese and you will be warmly welcomed everywhere.

What is the best or most inspiring thing about your emigration?

Let go of your European institution of rules, agreements and order or you'll be annoyed to death.

What is the funniest or most painful misunderstanding you have experienced because of language or cultural differences?

Everything continually goes haywire. There is always a signature or a stamp or something missing. Once I was not allowed on a tourist bus with my own daughter (possible child abduction), when I showed up with a self-signed letter that it was ok, I was allowed on the bus (surreal).

Have you adopted local customs?

Let go of European social rules.

How do locals react to you living and working here now?

Brazilians are smooth and warm in their interactions and generally admire Europe.

Are there any customs in social interaction that you found difficult to understand or had to get used to?

Failure to keep appointments.

How does friendship here differ from how it is perceived in your home country?

Brazilians seem superficial, but if you can accept them as they are, you have friends for life.

What are the challenges in Brazil?

Have there been times when you doubted your choice/emigration, or what disappointed you?

Bureaucracy, bureaucracy, bureaucracy.

What would you do differently next time and what would you like to give others with the same idea?

Mentally prepare for everything to take an awful long time and don't take people too seriously.

How do you deal with homesickness/loneliness?/What do you miss most?

Brazilians are bon vivants, loneliness hardly exists in this country.

Are there things you appreciate more about your homeland now that you are here?

The sense of organization, the seriousness with which things are handled.

How are the practical rules & what are the issues in Brazil?

How do you deal with the bureaucracy in your new country?

Suffering. Problems with administration can often be solved if you happen to know the right people. Try to make friends. Everyone has an acquaintance or family member who can help you through a more informal avenue to help solve your problem. Brazil is the most bureaucratic country I have been.Economists talk about the ‘Brazilian cost’ by which is meant all the additional costs you have to charge to get something done (clearance fees, taxes, administrative costs, bribes, etc.) An additional disadvantage is that everything is done in Portuguese. Few people speak English.

How did you find a suitable place to live?

Through a real estate agent.

Was it difficult? What are the biggest cost differences between this country and your home country?

Owner and tenant both have to pay a comission fee to the real estate agent. This amount can be high. The tenant is obliged, when leaving the rental property to have it repainted at his expense, at least as far as the inside is concerned.

What did you learn about insurance, taxes and other financial obligations abroad?

Without your registration with the CPF (tax authorities) you won't get anywhere.

Have you used local health care (general practitioner, specialist, dentist, etc.) and what stands out to you?

If you are well insured you can use an excellent private health service).

What is similar or totally different from Belgium health care?

Two tracks : excellent care for those who have the money , third-rate care for those who rely on the public health service.

What is useful for others to consider?

Do not rent a house, but an apartment. A home is too dangerous because of numerous break-ins and robberies. Apartments offer better security. Do not wear jewelry or show signs of wealth. In addition to your actual wallet, keep a wallet with a small amount of money in your pocket and give it when you become the victim of a robbery. Do not try to be a hero, because a human life is not worth much in Brazil.
The police are very quick to reach for their weapon. Never argue with them if you notice they are agitated, wait until they have calmed down. I was once threatened with a gun by four policemen, until they realised I was a foreigner and had nothing to do with a theft I had just committed....
If you have the means, engage an errand boy to take care of all kinds of business for you, (bank, mail, electricity bills, condominium fees pay etc, because everywhere you bump into endless lines of people waiting)

What kind of business have you established?

Consulate General.

What is the bureaucracy like in the country you are in?

Belgian bureaucracy times 10.

What local traditions or rituals have inspired or touched you?

Carnival.

How do you balance working, relaxing and enjoying your new surroundings?

In Rio de Janeiro, the weekend starts on Friday afternoon. Laze on the beach or walk in the “ Floresta de Tijuca”

How is it to communicate in Brazil?

Have you learned the local language and if so, how?

Yes. First some lessons with assimil and then just being immersed in a Brazilian language bath. A must in this country.

How do you stay in touch with home?

Email.

What are some communication problems you have encountered?

Without a basic knowledge of the language, you won't get anywhere.

What have you learned?

That we Europeans often take life far too seriously.
As a diplomat, indeed, you have to love travelling, adventure and change to last in the diplomatic profession. You pay a high price to your social life.
Just when you feel like home, it's time to leave again and leave behind the friends you've made. An interesting career, but I still wouldn't recommend it to everyone.

"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Frank Weijand - Ecuador

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"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Juliette Kwee - The Philippines

Who?

Juliette Kwee

Where?

The Philippines, Manila

Which initiative?

Smokey Tours

What?

Smokey Tours offers Slum Tours, Bicycle Tours, Market Tours & several other tours for visiting travelers & local Filipinos.

Something special?

Slum tour: slums are a whole other world. A world which at first glance seems so different to what the majority of the visitors are used to. We see people working hard peeling garlic, scavenging for recyclable goods and making food out of leftovers from garbage bins. Life is tough, it's dirty but it's not a depressing place. People are smiling and getting on with life. Visit one of Manila's poorest areas where people try to live and work and call home. Understand the issues that the residents face, and discover resilience in its truest form.
Cemetery tour: discover why some people choose to live inside a cemetery and learn about the beliefs and superstitions of Filipino's.
Education & skills development: Smokey Tours educates impoverished people to become professional tour leaders.Tour leaders of Smokey Tours improve their English, learn tour leading and leadership skills.

And last but not least...a little insight in 'Why'

In January 2011, Juliette Kwee organized a photo tour for Bahay at Yaman ni San Martin de Porres (BYSMP). This ‘photo walk’ portrayed the way children live in the area of Tondo, specifically Smokey Mountain. 20 local photographers volunteered and donated their photographs. Juliette discovered the talents of the residents of Smokey Mountain: they tell stories about their neighbourhood with passion, pride and dignity.
The idea of a special tour was born. Juliette started recruiting and coaching potential tour leaders. To professionally develop the tours Juliette reached out to international likeminded organizations that were already offering slum tours in Brazil and India.
The Smokey Mountain tour became Smokey Tours’ signature tour (hence the name of the organization). Since the very beginning all the profit made with the Smokey Tours is donated to local NGO's. Smokey Tours now offers several different tours and keeps seeking improvement and growth opportunities.
Connecting Two Worlds
The Dutch psychologist Juliette Kwee, who has been living in the Philippines since 2008 and not new to volunteer activities, felt something stir within her during her first visit to Smokey Mountain, a poverty stricken area located in Tondo, Manila. Kwee could not help but notice the difference between Smokey Mountain and its neighboring area, Makati City. Kwee shares, “I went to Smokey Mountain and I was so touched by the community. But I also sometimes go to this posh park in Makati and I was shocked. It’s only half an hour from each other. I started thinking, ‘how can we connect this two worlds?’”
Kwee knew she has to use a tool that will appeal to Filipinos from all walks of life. She concluded: “What do Filipinos like? Filipinos like taking photos. We organized a photowalk and called some photographers to take photos of the children and to show the resiliency of the community.” The photos, which were put up in an exhibition, sent a powerful message that one could be happy without material things as long there is love, food, and the opportunity for education.
Kwee says that the special tour took shape when she worked with the Smokey Mountain residents and area officers. “I met some tanods at that time and I was amazed at how they could talk about where they’re from and what they’re doing with pride. “Why is there not a slum tour here?” she shares. Kwee sought the help of Chris Way, the co-founder of India-based Reality Tours & Travel, which won the Community Award at the World Travel and Tourism Council's (WTTC) 2015 Tourism for Tomorrow Awards Ceremony in Madrid, Spain. “I want to train people who can take their own initiative. To be empowered and to take responsibility. People are smart enough to make their own decisions,” Kwee says.
Smokey Tours has expanded its list of activities. Aside from the slum tour, tourists can now explore Manila while cycling, go to cemeteries and other local spots, and experience Old Manila. As a testament to the organization’s excellence, “Smokey Tours” has been ranked number one on TripAdvisor.
Anno 2025 BYSMP Bless the Children is still conducting the different tours, check the link for more information.

"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Frans Betgem - Thailand

Who?

Frans Betgem

Where?

Thailand

Which Initiative?

Green Trails

What?

Green Trails: 1-2-3-+4 day(s) trekking tours, trails and exploration tours with an emphasis on and respect for local culture
Chiang Mai a la Carte: "umbrella" website about Chiang Mai with a focus on festivals, traditions, architecture, culture and meaningful encounters
Tong Bai Elephant Tour: elephant friendly day tour about the issue of the involvement of captive elephants in tourism
Chiang Mai on Three Wheels: Chiang Mai tours by samlor (bicycle taxi)

Something special?

Chiang Mai on Three Wheels, a social tourism enterprise, aims to preserve the samlor, a Chiang Mai heritage, as a means of transportation in the future. With these samlor tours they try to improve the livelihood of the taxi drivers by offering them jobs and (extra) education. In the old days, before the age of the automobile, there were hundreds of samlors in Chiang Mai. Nowadays there are less than 70.
Family Tours: these tours include trekking but also interactive and educational elements, with several trekking itineraries in the Chiang Dao area. This area is very suitable for family tours; there are lots of villages and lots of children.

And last but not least...a little insight in 'Why'

Frans Betgem is a Dutch national who has been living in Chiang Mai for more than 20 years. Frans' travels brought him to Southeast Asia in 1987. In 1990 he started working for Baobab Travel as a tourleader in Thailand. Frans worked for this company in Thailand, Vietnam, Indonesia, Philippines and Australia from 1990 until 1998. In 2012 he started his own business in Chiang Mai, Tiger Trail, nowadays re-branded as Green Trails. Green Trails commit to offer the best and most innovative cultural, outdoor and trekking tours in North Thailand. Green Trails believes in sustainable and responsible travel and always tries to create meaningful experiences, both for visitors and for the host communities.

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"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Paulien & Karst - China

Who?

Paulien Leisink & Karst Draaisma

Where?

China, Yangshuo

Which initiative?

The Giggling Tree

What?

Guesthouse accomodation close to Yangshuo (20 min bicyle ride)

Something special?

Cluster of authentic farmhouses: Paulien and Karst transformed a cluster of old authentic farmhouses, surrounding a courtyard, into a guesthouse in the Chinese countryside. The houses have been built with adoben which keep the rooms relatively cool in the hot summers.
Cookingschool: An Australian cookingexpert has set up a great cookingstudio. After a visit to the local market you will cook 5 dishes by yourself with great instructions from the Chinese staff.
Local charity: The Giggling Tree and guests support Chinese people on a local scale: a local primary school, an elderly home, Chinese individuals

And last but not least...a little insight in 'Why'

Paulien and Karst travelled around the world for 2 years, working as volunteers in projects with orphans and handicapped children. They travelled from Eastern Europe to Afrika and Asia. China was the last big stop. From there they took the Trans Siberia Express, back to Holland. After 2 years, they wanted to travel again and started working as tourleaders, mostly in China.
Karst discovered a complex of old farmhouses while cycling around and saw the opportunity to start their own guesthouse, a longtime dream. It turned out that all the owners (27!!!) were willing to give the place out for rent. Negotiations could start. When all the owners were satisfied they pressed their thumb in red ink and the contract was signed.
The big metamorphosis could start: 80.000 rooftiles have been cleaned, removed, reput, walls have been broken down, rebuilt, rendered and painted, bathrooms were built, floors relayed, electricity has been put in and a watertank and a watersystem have been installed. These are just a few things that were necessary to turn this beautiful authentic complex into a special guesthouse. Located on a splendid spot, about 5 km outside of Yangshuo in the middle of ricepaddies and Karstmountains.
Since 2012 they also opened a relaxgarden and since 2013 an outdoor swimmingpool is in use. In the Summer of 2013 Paulien and Karst made another dream come true by adopting their new son Raaf, from Ethiopia. Since September 2013 their oldest son Pelle is attending primary school in Guilin.
The Giggling Tree is managed by Dutch managers (other than Paulien and Karst) and their Chinese team. Periodically, new managers are welcomed at The Giggling Tree.

"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Roos Tieges & Ingrid van der Straaten - Thailand

Who?

Roos Tieges
Ingrid van der Straaten

Where?

Thailand

Which Initiative?

TCDF, Thai Child Development Foundation
Eco-Logic, the 'Resort for Charity'

What?

The Thai Child Development Foundation (TCDF) supports local children in their development by making sure that customized medical care and education is also available to underprivileged children and children with disabilities or learning disorders.
Local Thai team members provide social support programs (medical care, education) together with daily life caregivers to underpriviledged children in their own village/community
Other projects where TCDF team and local+international volunteers work hands-on: emergenct funds, physiotherapy, nutrition programs, scholarships, occupational training center and perma culture farm, community learning center

Something special?

At TCDF they believe that the social outreach work can only be done well by working with local people who can develop a long-term bond of trust with the children and their caregivers through constant communication.
TCDF take care of children in their own community, without taking them out of their homes and never longer than needed
International and Thai volunteers open up the worlds of the children and the members of the forest community by sharing their (often unique!) skills and knowledge within the community learning center, yoga center and/ or on the organic farm.
TCDF try to limit damage to the environment. They are strict in handling garbage, reusing garbage, and recycling.
Eco-Logic, Resort for Charity with tourist accommodation, workshops, and tour packages, is on the same property of the Foundation. This sister company of TCDF is a Thai for profit company and is TCDF's main sponsor.

And last but not least...a little insight in 'Why'

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"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Ingrid Lommers - Costa Rica & Panama

Who?

Ingrid (Ins) Lommers

Where?

Panama and Costa Rica

Which initiative?

Spanish at Locations

What?

Spanish Language courses, accommodation, travel & outdoor activities, volunteering

Something special?

Spanish courses at 5 locations: Enroll in spanish courses AND have the freedom to travel around. Five seamless schools allow you to choose your own adventure without losing academic continuity. Stay put in one place, pick your own path, or join the Travelling Spanish Classroom on a 4 week guided trip to experience true adventure-education.
Camping at “Gekui Pacuare River Camp”, Turrialba: 2, 3 or 4 day rafting trip on the Pacuare. It can also be part of a hiking trip. Once at the campsite, you will sleep on elevated platforms that will put you in direct contact with the sights and sounds of the tropical rain forest. Extra possibility: candlelight family style dinners!
Virtual Spanish Courses: Jumpstart or retain what you learned: length, location and topic of classes can be customized.

And last but not least...a little insight in 'Why'

(by: Ingrid Lommers)
After deciding I had to be a business person, make money, buy and do everything I desired, I subsequently finished business school and took a job. I was only 20 years old and one day I looked out of the windows of the fancy office of the importer/exporter company of sports shoes where I was working at the time. I stared at a pond with ducks floating and playing around and I was actually a bit of jealous of them. I thought “is this all, is this where I am going to be the rest of my life between 8 and 5 from Monday till Friday?”. So I decided to continue studying to prepare to do something other than selling shoes. I enrolled at the University of Amsterdam to study economical development with a specialization on Latin America. As a part of writing my thesis, I went for 10 months to Surinam and learned about development issues in third world countries. Looking back, I think, that is when I developed my “fever for the tropics“.
In 1993, I got the opportunity to go to Costa Rica, to work on a project in development aid at the National University of Costa Rica. While my work gave me good experience in development, I lost my motivation to stay in that field. I found that I would be more satisfied to work on my own projects and be able to do something to create sustainable progress. As a result, I began to invest my time in various jobs in tourism, including becoming a raft and tour guide. The culture, language, nature and people of Costa Rica touched me deeply and I decided to stay longer.
While I worked as a raft and tour guide I met Fernando, native of Turrialba, Costa Rica and we started to work and live together. When our first daughter was born in 1997, I began to study Spanish and work at different language schools in Costa Rica. In 1998 I had the opportunity to go to Bocas del Toro – Panama to set up a school for a company established in Costa Rica. In the beginning Bocas was not known by international tourists, but little by little, the school began to grow.
I had learned some limited Spanish while being a student in Salamanca in Spain, where I developed a love for the language. Several years later I enrolled in a Spanish school in San Jose but at that time could not afford to continue my studies. As a result, I learned Spanish the hard way, while working at my various jobs. This experience is what gave birth to the dream of Spanish at Locations, making learning Spanish affordable.
Four years later, the birth of a school in Turrialba in Costa Rica fulfilled our dream to combine Spanish classes with river adventures on the Pacuare River. Fernando had been operating a river camp there for many years. His hobby, breeding horses, turned out to be useful when we started to organize our own horse ride trips in the surroundings of Turrialba. Three years later, we opened a third branch, this time in the highland town of Boquete, Panama. This school is also called “Spanish by the River” as the town of Boquete is located near Panama´s best white water. Six years later we started two additional schools, one in Panama City and the other in Puerto Viejo – Costa Rica. The creative skills and abilities of Fernando are on display at our campuses. Coincidentally, the ages of our three daughters match the ages of our first three schools. Our three daughters and our son have been our motivation to continually work hard, improve and enjoy the schools!
Although in recent years the relationship between Fernando and me has changed, we continue to be business partners and to share a common vision regarding Spanish at Locations. New people have joined us that don’t share our history but they are realizing their own dreams within this company. Without them it would definitely not be the same! Because of them, I was able to not only finish my Master Degree in Spanish as a foreign Language, but also to enjoy what I really like to do, teach Spanish. I am fortunate to be active in the beautiful surroundings of our schools and dedicate time to other important things in my life.

"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Tessa de Goede de Ordoñez - Guatemala

Who?

Tessa de Goede de Ordoñez

Where?

Guatemala

Which Initiative?

Tess Unlimited

What?

Surgery of babies and children with a cleft lip and/or cleft palate, in close partnership with local hospitals, health posts and midwives throughout Guatemala
Other projects throughout Guatemala where Tess' team and local+international volunteers work hands-on: milk project, orthodontic care, psychological guidance, speech therapy

Something special?

Parents who have a child with a cleft lip or an clet palate have to try to overcome fear and their shame. Group therapy sessions, between parents of different children, also help them become more stable with their situation. Tess Unlimited provides psychological guidance for both parents and children, through experienced Guatemalan and international volunteers
Campamento Sonrisas is a 10-day summer camp (yearly in November) organized especially for young adults born with a cleft lip and cleft palate. During this week they have different trips and activities to create an environment where they can share experiences, make friendships, develop social skills and have some fun. Each year Tessa and her team are looking for specialized volunteers like psychologists, speech pathologists, drama teachers (workshops) and creative volunteers

And last but not least...a little insight in 'Why'

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"The Dutch" Working & Living Abroad: Miriam Levie - Spain & Italy

Who?

Miriam Levie

Where?

Málaga, Spain

Which initiative?

TEFL-in-Spain, TEFL-in-Italy

What?

TEFL courses on location and online TEFL courses, Teacher Development & Spanish or Italian courses

Something special?

Trinity College London Certificate courses: The Trinity College London Certificate TESOL (Teaching English to Speakers of Other Languages) is the highest TEFL qualification (same as the CELTA), validated by Trinity College London and recognised by the British Council and employers worldwide.
Teacher development courses: specialist course modules to improve your teaching skills and to be able to teach to various target groups
Career services: There is a big demand for English teachers in Spain and Italy. Compared to other European countries, the level of English is quite low, so Spanish and Italian people need to improve their English in order to find a good job in Italy or abroad.

And last but not least...a little insight in 'Why'

Miriam, nowadays Director and Course Tutor, gained her first experience in teaching English as a foreign language when she came to Spain in January 2005 to study Spanish. Spanish people have a generally low level of foreign language skills and Miriam found out there was a big demand for English teachers. First, she started giving one-on-one classes and later Miriam was offered a job at a language school, followed by a position as an in-company English teacher. She enjoyed it so much that she realised teaching foreign languages was her true vocation. Miriam understands what students are going through, because she knows exactly what it is like to learn another language. After several years of teaching Miriam wanted to further develop her skills related to the theory and practice in the area of teaching English and decided to study again. She received a Master’s Degree in Applied Linguistics at the Universidad Autónoma of Madrid. In this programme she specialised in Second Language Acquisition and Teacher Training and decided to set up a high quality TEFL school with other experienced teacher trainers.

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